(belated) Thankful Thursday

 

1. I was able to walk and chat with Lyn (Ian's piano teacher) for thirty minutes a few times over the last several weeks. Another day I walked and chatted with Rosann for an hour. 

2. Our spring session of our co-op came to a close on May 7. The kids also put on a presentation of Alice on May 13 at CWC. Oliver was a pigeon, Nadia was Alice, and Ian was the Mad Hatter. At the moment there are eleven kids planning to be in our co-op in the fall. My kids love having co-op at our house!

3. This month I enjoyed getting my first pedicure in five years and my first manicure in two years. My nail appointments took place at the same time each vehicle was getting an oil change and annual inspection.

4. Nadia and Ian did well in the Bible quizzing competitions in Indiana on May 10-11. Ian has been working diligently to memorize the book of Colossians in preparation for Nationals next month as he has been selected to be on the A team, and Nadia has been selected to be the team captain for our B team. Dave thinks that both of our teams might make it into the A division at nationals which hasn't happened in more than 10 years.

5. Nadia and Ian participated in the spring program at Meadowbrook on May 14. Some of their artwork was also on display. 

6. Nadia has begun taking acoustic guitar lessons in Lewisburg.

7. Seven of the kids' friends also attended the Emergency Preparedness Day at the prison in Allenwood.

8. Nadia and I attended the CHEF co-op's production of Little Women with Faith, Melinda, and Xandir.

9. Nadia and Ian enjoyed attending the Ray of Lights Celebration for those who participated in high school drama productions. Paul and Oliver enjoyed seeing the movie IF that same evening. 

10. Nadia and I really enjoyed seeing the movie Unsung Hero on April 29. We highly recommend it if you haven't seen it! 

11. The $18K check from the insurance company was delivered by FedEx yesterday morning! PTL! 

12. Ian's $497 cardiology appointment on Monday was a waste of time, but we're thankful that the pulmonologist in Hershey was wrong and Ian doesn't have a heart murmur. I don't want to drive 2 hours one way to the ENT that the Healthcare Bluebook recommended, so I've made him an appointment at an ENT in Williamsport on July 23. 

13. I've signed my boys plus three nephews and one niece for Stronghold camp in July. We're excited that they will be able to spend a week at our house! 

14. We are spending more on Nadia's 16th birthday than we usually spend on a birthday. Her big gift from us is a roundtrip ticket to Chicago so she can spend five days with Rachel.

15. I also recently signed Paul and I up for a ballroom dancing class!!! We met at a ballroom dancing class in February 1997, and it's been ten years since the last time we took a class together. We are signed up for an 8-week Intermediate Cha Cha class. I think we'll be able to attend six of the eight classes. 

16. Paul and I have been lengthening the distance that we walk each day. If it's not raining our first walk is usually four miles long. 

17. It's been a while since I was able to cross a state off our license plate list for 2024, but on Tuesday I spotted North Dakota, and today I saw one from Kansas. We have five states left to find. Alaska should be really easy in August. :)

18. Oliver and Ian are done with their schoolwork for the 2023-24 year! Nadia still needs to finish Algebra 2, Marine Biology, and World History (through GCU). 

19. I recently had applied for an IHG credit card. The bonus points they gave us were enough to cover three nights at a Holiday Inn on Long Island in August, and because we used points for three nights, they gave us a fourth night for free. I had to pay a $99 annual fee, but for that price we are getting four free nights at a hotel on Long Island plus they will give us $100 refund after we pay for TSA Precheck. 

20. Alaska Airlines changed the time of our flights in August. I didn't like the times of the new itinerary that they had created. I called the airline yesterday and they changed it to a time I like better although I still prefer what I had originally picked. I'm thankful though that we will be landing there in the afternoon instead of 2:33am, as that sounds awful especially considering that will feel like 6:33 to our bodies.

Winding down

Our 2023-24 school year is almost complete. We already finished history, Life of Fred, Fix it Grammar, and the classes we were doing in our co-op. We had a dress rehearsal at 5:00 last night for our production of Alice, and put it on for the parents and some other family members at 6:00. After the show was over, we shared a meal together. We didn't have a set, but we had some props and costumes. The kids did a great job. Nadia had a LOT of lines to memorize, and she did a great job of projecting as we didn't use any microphones. Ian, who played the Mad Hatter, was definitely the funniest character. Julianna was sick, but her older sister filled in at the last minute as the Queen of Hearts and the March Hare. She had to read her lines as obviously she didn't have any time to memorize them. She did a great job with her part albeit she only joined us at the last minute. Nadia and Ian have also finished their art class at MCS. Today they had their last chorus rehearsal, and this evening they had their last concert for the school year. Field trips are a constant for us all year long. For example, over the next two weeks we plan to go to Hopewell Furnace NHS, Emergency Preparedness Day, a production of Little Women, Young Eagles flight, Shaver's Creek Environmental Center, Monocacy National Battlefield, Wolf Trap National Park, and Maggie Walker NHS. Although some things will continue throughout the summer such as reading and listening to audiobooks (all three), practicing the piano (Ian), and practicing the guitar (Nadia), here are the things that the kids need to finish to completely wrap up this school year:

1. Ian and Nadia need to finish Algebra 2. Ian should finish next week. It's going to take Nadia longer than that.
2. Nadia needs to finish Marine Biology, and she has until June 9 to finish her World History course through Grand Canyon University. 
3. Oliver needs to master the spelling of twenty-four more words.
4. All three of them are at varying places in demonstrating to me that they know the countries and capitals of Europe and Africa.
5. Ian and Nadia will continue to prepare for the Bible quizzing nationals which will be taking place in New York June 19-22. Ian wants to memorize the book of Colossians between now and then as he was recently told that he'll be on our church's "A" team. Nadia will be the captain of the "B" team. At the recent quiz in Indiana, the team Nadia was on placed first, Ian's team placed third, Ian tied for 2nd place in the individual competition, and Ian and Nadia were in 5th and 6th places in the written portion of the competition. Nadia won $30, and Ian won $40 at that competition. 

Because school has been winding down, I've been scheduling other types of appointments. Nadia had her first guitar lesson last week. While Nadia and Ian were in Indiana for a Bible quizzing competition, I took the van for an oil change, tire rotation, and annual inspection in the morning and then that afternoon took the van to the Honda dealer for a safety recall I had received notification about in January. While the van was being serviced in the morning, I got my first pedicure in five years. My dad gave me $100 for my birthday, and I decided to follow the advice Margie had given me when she was alive about using it for something I wouldn't normally have gotten. My first plan was to use the money towards a crockpot because the one my mom gave me in 2016 died recently, but for me a crockpot is a necessity not a splurge. I decided to use the birthday money towards my nails instead. Not that a pedicure cost $100! I'm planning to use more of that money towards a manicure next week when I take Paul's car in for an annual inspection, oil change, and tire rotation. Tomorrow Nadia and I are getting our hair cut. She typically gets hers done once a year, and I usually go 3-4 times a year. I cut Paul, Oliver, Pop Pop, and Ian's hair. I'm scheduled to have a mammogram on Thursday morning, and Ian has a cardiology appointment next Monday. Year round the boys go to the orthodontist once a month, Ian has a weekly 45-minute piano lesson, and Nadia has recently started taking a weekly 30-minute guitar lesson in Lewisburg. Ian is working on some music he's found online as well as Chopin's Military Polonaise, and a piano duet arrangement of Beethoven's 3rd Symphony. He's playing the primo part, and our neighbor, Addi, is playing the secondo part with him. 

Planning lesson plans, future vacations, and field trips is something I do regularly throughout the year. This morning, I booked an Airbnb for two nights in Houghton for Paul, Oliver, and I so we can watch part of the quizzing competition. We could also have stayed in the dorms like Ian and Nadia, but it was unappealing to us to pay $18.50 per person per night to stay in a dorm that doesn't have air conditioning. Sometimes those plans lead me to apply for a new credit card. This time I applied for an IHG credit card because the points we will be awarded after the first month of using it will be enough to pay for three nights at a Holiday Inn on Long Island in August, and whenever you use points for three nights, they give you a fourth night for free. The card has a $99 annual fee, but the card also reimburses up to $100 toward the cost of TSA Precheck, and Paul and I have a TSA Precheck appointment next month. This means we won't really be paying an annual fee, and we'll be able to stay for four nights for free on Long Island at a hotel that costs more than we usually pay per night. In the past we always stayed at Aunt Janet's home, but she moved to Reno a few years ago. It's much easier for us to travel to Long Island than to Reno. She spends a month on Long Island in August at a friend's house. We are looking forward to a wide variety of experiences over the next 3.5 months before we start the next school year. 

Doctors galore

For years we have suspected that Ian might have sleep apnea. When I asked his pediatrician about this years ago, I was told that we should just wait and see if he would naturally outgrow it. When I mentioned it at his physical in January, we were given a referral for a pulmonologist at Geisinger. Ian had a video appointment on April 3, which resulted in a sleep study being scheduled for August 19. Because we don't have insurance, they sent us an estimate of the cost. With a "cash" discount, the price was still $6K. I called Healthcare Bluebook, and they told me that Ian could have a sleep study at Hershey Medical for $1,500, and because it was the "fair price," we wouldn't have to pay the usual $400 co-pay. We saw the pulmonologist at Hershey Medical on April 30. It was worth driving 3 hours round trip to save our family $400 plus save the Samaritan system $4,500. An in-person visit was much better than a video appointment. He was able to see that one side of Ian's nose is completely blocked. Ian has said for years that he hasn't been able to breathe out of his right nostril. He's been a mouth breather since he was a toddler. The doctor said that he's too young to fix the deviated septum, but that the turbinate hypertrophy can be addressed. He submitted two prescriptions to address that issue and said Ian also needs to see an ENT in light of the size of his tonsils plus the blockage in his nose. Unfortunately, he sent them to a Walmart in Lewistown rather than Lewisburg, so I wasn't able to pick them up on Tuesday. I'm planning to pick them up tomorrow. I called Healthcare Bluebook to find out which ENT within a couple of hours radius of our home would do a tonsillectomy and/or open up his nasal passageway at a fair price. They are working on that. The good news is that if we go with one of their recommendations, we won't have to pay for the surgery, and our $400 co-pay will be waived. Normally you pay a bill, and then submit it for reimbursement if it exceeds $400. That will still be the case for pre-op testing and consultations, but not for the surgery itself which is nice as that can easily be $5,000 or more. We've been with Samaritan for 2.5 years and only submitted one bill for reimbursement so far. 

We are planning to stick with Hershey Medical for the pulmonology, but we're hoping to see a local pediatric cardiologist, and we have no idea yet where we'll go for the ENT. Ian saw MANY doctors during the first three years of his life due to his urological condition and eosinophilic esophagitis (GI, allergist, psychologist, urologist, ENT, and cardiologist). However, for the last almost 11.5 years, he's pretty much only gone to the doctor once a year for a physical. I feel badly that I never mentioned his frequent nosebleeds or his complaint about not being able to breathe through his one nostril the last several years, but I'm also wondering if I need to find a different PCP for him if he has had a heart murmur and they never detected it, and they also must never have looked into his nose because the doctor said it's 100% blocked. My sister, Yvonne, has an innocent heart murmur. Hoping if Ian has a heart murmur, his is also innocent, and I'm praying that the ENT will give us wise counsel as far as whether or not surgery is needed so that he can breathe better. I used to drive him to Philadelphia, Hershey, etc. for appointments in the first three years of his life. It seems like that will be the case again now for at least the next seven months as we already have two appointments scheduled in Hershey in October and November with the pulmonologist. Ian doesn't remember any of his urological surgeries or endoscopies. If he has another surgery this year, obviously he'll remember this one. 

At the doctor's office on Tuesday, they measured his height as a little over 5 foot 4 inches. He grew two inches since January! He's a tiny fraction of an inch shorter than Nadia. Her days of being taller than him are definitely numbered. Unfortunately, with his clothes and shoes on he only weighed 90 pounds, which puts him at the 2nd percentile for BMI. He lost weight over the last few months. I've asked him to try to gain at least five pounds. Oliver has been gaining weight like a champ the last couple of months as I told him he needed to weigh at least 80 pounds when we go ziplining in Alaska in August. I think it's going to be harder for Ian to gain five pounds, but hopefully he can get his BMI to at least 5%. As one who is often wanting to lose a few pounds, I can't relate to having a problem gaining weight. 

On March 22 the health insurance company told the investigator that they would reimburse us. We haven't received anything yet. Hopefully they haven't changed their minds. I found a cheaper place for a mammogram in Bloomsburg. I haven't had one in 17 months. They only reimburse the cost of a mammogram if a problem is detected, so I'm hoping never to be reimbursed for a mammogram. Oliver had quite a few doctor appointments and hospitalizations for the first six years of his life, but for the last almost six years, he's also mostly only gone for his annual physical. Nadia has been very healthy for almost sixteen years. Hopefully after we address the sleep apnea and other issues recently uncovered with Ian, we can again have a stretch without many doctor appointments.