Giving Thanks

1. Paul was supposed to have jury duty in August. They postponed it to November because of our trip to Alaska. He had to check on Friday night four weeks in a row to see if he needed to report the following Monday or not. Thankfully, all four weeks he received the message that he didn't need to report for duty! We both are happy to perform this civic duty at some point, but we'd prefer to do so either in the summer or at least 7 years from now when we're empty nesters. Although I do most of the homeschooling, Paul does chemistry experiments on Tuesdays at co-op, and he helps Nadia and Ian with chemistry and math when they ask for help. 

2. The kids enjoyed a retreat at Camp Susque with their youth group the weekend of November 8-10.

3. Cheri and I attended a women's ministry dinner at my church on November 8.

4. I struggled to come up with something special to do on Tuesday since it's our final day of co-op for the fall session. Thankfully, I finally had the idea to take the kids to see the movie The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. Their parents will pick them up later than usual from our house on Tuesday. I've never taken eleven kids to the movies before, ha ha! Thankfully, Ben has his driver's license so between his vehicle and our van everyone will have a ride. 

5. Nadia was given a small speaking part in the Wizard of Oz! She will be the barrister of Munchkinland.

6. Two nights ago, Cheri and I attended a Philips, Craig, and Dean concert. It was amazing. It was definitely my favorite concert from 2024. I love how the three men harmonize together. I first started listening to them in the early 90s. I'm not sure if I had ever been to one of their concerts before. 

7. I purchased a new game recently - Telestrations, and we enjoyed playing it for a family fun night once and also the kids at co-op played it last Tuesday. We certainly don't have a family fun night every week, but we try to have one once a week as often as possible, and we certainly have plenty of time together as a family almost every week since we homeschool, and Paul works from home! 

8. Nadia earned an A in Evangelism and an A- in Old Testament Survey this semester. Her art history class doesn't wrap up until December 13. As of this moment, she's earned 24 college credits so far. As of December 13, that will increase to 27 credits. She could technically receive a HS diploma from the state of Pennsylvania in the spring as they will issue one once you've earned 30 college credits, but we're going to wait until the spring of 2026 because the tuition at Liberty is much cheaper if you're in high school. Also, I want her to at least take Physics and Literature when she's in twelfth grade. When I went to register her for her spring classes, I found out that they have additional prerequisites for some classes if you are enrolled as a high schooler. This means she can't take three of the classes I thought she could take through dual enrollment. Thankfully, I found three other classes that I believe she can take instead (astronomy, earth science, and developmental psychology).  

9. Paul and I have talked about going to Hawaii for over 20 years. Lord willing, it looks like we'll be going there next August. I purchased the airfare today because the price had dropped, and I had codes to get two of the tickets for $99 each. The plan is that we'll fly from the DC area to Honolulu and then fly back from Maui to the DC area. At a later time, I'll need to book flights in between the islands. Rachel might be joining us for the trip, or her family might overlap with us for part of our trip. We plan to spend 4 nights on Oahu, 7 nights on the Big Island, and 2 nights on Maui. I know some people visit Hawaii regularly (like my Aunt Janet), but Paul and I view this as a once in a lifetime trip. I'm planning to use credit card points to pay for most of our lodging and rental car expenses. If all goes as planned, we'll be on Oahu on Oliver's 13th birthday and on Big Island on our 24th anniversary. So far, I paid about $1800 for round trip tickets for the five of us and paid a whopping $36 for a five-night reservation on the Big Island. We're excited about seeing more of God's beautiful creation! 

10. This weekend Paul installed the sink faucet I recently got for the kids' bathroom. Our house is 25 years old. We haven't done any big projects on the house this year, but we've done some very small things like replacing two faucets. I'm not handy *at all* so I'm very grateful for Paul's help!

11. A couple from our Sunday School class took our family out to lunch today because they wanted to hear more about our trip to Alaska as they are planning to go there next year. We had an enjoyable time!

12. The Newsboys are one of Ian's top two favorite bands. They performed at a venue less than 30 minutes from our house last night. Cheri joined the five of us. The concert Friday night was definitely more up my alley, but I was thankful we could make a memory together! 

13. Paul had a cough for two months. He finally went to the doctor on Monday. Thankfully the antibiotic plus steroid seems to be working as he's much better now than he was a week ago. 

14. They had said it would take 3-4 weeks to get the results of Ian's sleep study. Thankfully it actually only took a couple of days. He has mild sleep apnea. The pulmonologist recommended he see another ENT to have surgery on his nose. He has an appointment with an ENT on December 3. Ian said he doesn't want to wait until he's 18 to be able to breathe through his nose. We shall see if the ENT agrees. They won't fix a deviated septum on a minor, but they can address the hypertrophy turbinates. Ian had four surgeries before he turned three years old, but he hasn't had one since then. 

Thankful Thursday

 1. Nadia has been hired as a part-time kennel assistant! She starts her training at 7:30 tomorrow morning. It seems for the most part she will only work on Saturdays. They are paying her $12/hour. She is hoping to at least earn enough to pay for her car insurance. 

2. Last weekend Nadia had a nice time with some of the girls she worked with at Camp Susque. I drove Nadia and Melanie to the home they were staying at, and Melanie's dad picked the girls up on Saturday morning.

3. The five of us were able to help pack meals at FBC on Saturday afternoon. Altogether 100,000 meals were packed that day at that church! 

4. The weather has been unseasonably warm. I love it! Not everyone in my family agrees with me. 

5. We enjoy hosting co-op at our home. The messiness of art is not my favorite part but hearing the laughter and watching the kids interact with each other warms my heart. This week's debate was on whether Pluto is a planet or a dwarf planet. Our final two debates will be on AI and whether there should be an age limit for the President, VP, and those in Congress. In art this week the kids began sculpting a turtle out of clay. Paul does two chemistry experiments with them each week. After lunch the kids play games. This week it was Balderdash and Pit for the first 90 minutes. Some kids stay later. This week the kids who were still here after 2:00 played Catan. 

6. Paul was supposed to have jury duty in August. Thankfully they were willing to postpone his until November due to our trip to Alaska. Every Friday evening (for four weeks) he has to check online to see if he's supposed to report at the district court in Williamsport or not. The first two times the answer has thankfully been "no." In light of co-op, we're hoping for the same result tomorrow and next Friday night. 

7. Ian has been using a gymnastic mat as a chair in our family room. I decided we needed to get another chair of some sort, and the kids picked a large bean bag. I used credit card points to get a Walmart gift card and used that gift card to pay for the 5-foot bean bag chair. Ian isn't the only one using that seat! Similarly, I used credit card points to buy a new faucet from Lowe's for the kids' bathroom. Hopefully it won't be too difficult for Paul to install it. 

8. In January Ian's primary care doctor started the process that finally culminated in him having a sleep study in Hershey last night. I usually transport the kids to their music lessons, doctor appointments, etc., but Paul stayed in the room with Ian for his sleep study. We are praying for accurate results so that we will know if Ian has sleep apnea, and if he does have it, how severe it is.

9. I'm thankful that we live in a free country where we have the ability to vote. I'm also grateful for the outcome of the election. Ultimately, God is in control, and my faith is in Him alone certainly not any politician, but given the ages of Alito and Thomas, I have been praying that when it's time for them to retire, they could be replaced with justices who would strictly follow the constitution. It's the first time in my life that every single candidate I voted for won! I am encouraged that Trump won even though Kamala's campaign spent FAR, FAR more money. I think how much money is spent on campaigns is insane and that which campaign has the most money shouldn't be the determining factor in who wins. Personally, my political views are not influenced one iota by all the things that showed up in our mailbox, by billboards, or by ads. Similarly, it is reassuring to know that people can make their own personal judgments despite what the media is constantly telling us (ex. "he is Hitler" - seriously?!?). Is Trump my ideal candidate? Absolutely not. I didn't even vote for him in 2016 because I wasn't sure if he was actually going to be conservative. Ironically (because Paul was the one who talked me out of the "lesser of two evils" philosophy while we were dating), Paul voted for him three times.

10. Paul has believed for four years that Trump actually won in 2020. I have thought it was *possible* that due to election fraud he lost, but I wasn't sure that could be stated as a fact. I changed my mind this week. In 2008 131 million people voted, in 2012 it was 129 million, and in 2016 it was 136 million which puts the average at 132 million over those 3 elections. The total for 2020 was 158 million, and this year the number was probably around 139 million. Hillary got 65 million votes in 2016 (Trump only had 62 million that election), and Kamala got 67 million in 2024. You'd think there would be much more of a draw to elect the first woman president (I hope that does happen at some point in my lifetime!). I can't believe that 20 million extra people actually voted in 2020 when the choice was between two old white guys. I'm more convinced now of the theory that fraudulent mail-in ballots swung that election. Since the numbers came back to "normal" this time, I feel like the election was probably fairer. I'm sure for many decades there has been some fraud involved on both sides of the aisle. I had students at Bloomsburg who would brag about the fact that they voted twice - once by absentee ballot based on their home address and again on campus using their college address, but it seems like in 2020 it was taken to a whole new level. I have to show an ID to board an airplane or check in at a hotel. I don't smoke or drink alcohol, but if I did, I'd need to show ID to make those purchases. I think our elections would be less susceptible to fraud if people had to show ID when they voted. Nadia was inundated with so many text messages encouraging her to vote, and she's only sixteen. The next time we have a presidential election both Nadia and Ian will be able to vote. They are growing up too quickly!