Wednesday, August 7, 2013

One Year Old!

All babies change and grow so much during the first year of life, but it seems even more dramatic when a baby comes as prematurely as Oliver did. Here's an overview of Oliver's first year of life!



At 3:35am on 8/6/12 I woke up in my hospital bed in a pool of blood again. I knew I'd  be immediately headed back down to the 8th floor Labor and Delivery unit, but I didn't know that I was about to given birth. Oliver weighed 3lb 15oz at birth. He was born at 4:22am, Paul arrived at 5:30, and my mom arrived at 6:00am. Paul and my mom left that afternoon, and I was on my own for the next four days until I was discharged on 8/11. His lowest recorded weight was 3lb 8oz, and he weighed 4lb 5oz on the day he turned one month old. During that first month he progressed from preemie size XS diapers to preemie size S diapers, from not being allowed to wear clothes to wearing preemie size clothes, from a ventilator to a CPAP to a low-flow cannula, from tube feedings to nursing and bottle feedings, and from being in the NICU to coming home sweet home. It was so very hard to have to wait several days after his birth to hold him for the first time. My fondest memories of his first month of life were the times I snuggled with him as his tiny head rested under my chin. His first ride in a vehicle was the ambulance that took us from Harrisburg to Danville, and when he was discharged from the NICU he came home in a car bed. I'm so grateful the Lord brought us through a very difficult pregnancy and NICU stay.

At two months old, Oliver weighed 5lb 9oz, and his head had grown to the point where it now filled my entire hand rather than just my palm. He was still wearing preemie size diapers and clothing and still on oxygen although he was off the two medications he had been on most of his life. He had a blocked tear duct and a much bigger umbilical hernia than his siblings. His hair was brown and his eyes were blue. It was very hard to get him to burp, but he was by far the best sleeper of my three kids.

At three months old Oliver weighed 7lbs 1oz and he was wearing newborn rather than preemie size clothing or diapers. He started smiling socially and got off the oxygen and apnea monitor and was promoted from the car bed to an infant car seat before he turned 3 months old!

The day Oliver turned 4 months old he switched to size one diapers, and at 9lb 6oz he was mostly wearing size 0-3 month clothing. I got him off the shield two weeks before he turned 4 months old. He very rarely took 3 naps at this stage. Most days he took 2 naps. We heard a little bit of laughter and cooing before he turned 4 months old.



Over the past month Oliver started laughing a lot more. He hit 11 lbs three days before he turned 5 months old and was still wearing size 0-3 month clothing. He still loved to grab one of my fingers while nursing or drinking his bottle! He's did that since he was two weeks old.

At 6 months old Oliver weighed 13lb 3 oz and was wearing size 2 diapers and mostly 3-6 month size clothing. Although his belly button was still much larger than "normal," it had gotten a LOT smaller by the time he turned 6 months old. He was a thumb sucker like his big sister.

At 7 months Oliver weighed 15 pounds and was using a convertible car seat that he'll be in until he turns 4 years old. He was eating solid food although he still hadn't really figured out what to do with his tongue. At 7 months he was enjoying playing with a variety of toys. He learned how to sit independently before he turned 7 months old!

At 8 months Oliver weighed 16 pounds and was wearing size 3 diapers and a combination of size 3-6 and 6-9 month clothing. Ten days before he turned 8 months old he was down to nursing just once a day.

At 9 months Oliver weighed 16lb 12oz, could scoot backwards quickly on smooth surfaces, had one tooth (on the bottom), was doing better with eating solid foods, and could say one word (dada).

At 10 months Oliver's hair was blonde whereas it was brown the first 9 months of his life. He could feed himself finger foods! He had two teeth, weighed a little less than 17 pounds, wore size 3 diapers, and wore anywhere from size 3-6 month to size 12 month clothing. Our trip to Florida last month completely messed up his sleeping habits, especially his naps.

At 11 months he could say dada and mama, weighed 17lb 11oz, was no longer nursing at all, wearing size 6-9 month or 12 month clothing, wearing size 3 diapers, lifting his arms to show he wanted to be picked up, and could go from sitting to his belly.




At 12 months old Oliver can crawl, pull himself up to a standing position, cruise, and go from his belly to a sitting position. He's mostly wearing size 9 month or 12 month clothing. He switched from bottles to sippy cups over the past month and can say "mama," "dada," and "hi." He eats just about anything and weighs 19 lbs. (5th percentile) I'm feeling a bit blue that we're using his last month sticker today, but it doesn't bother me at all that today he's switching from formula to whole milk! I think he's going to love the brownies I'm making for him today! Happy first birthday, Oliver!
 

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

We love Knoebels!

 
 
 

Going to various amusement parks over the years is one of my favorite memories from my childhood. Kings Dominion in Virginia was one of my most favorite parks when I was a child. Since I moved to PA in 1996, Knoebels has been my favorite amusement park. Yesterday was our third time at the park this year, and we'll be spending a little time there on Friday as the local Christian radio station will be hosting several free concerts there on Friday. My parents spent the night on Sunday night after Oliver's birthday party and joined us for about two hours at Knoebels before they drove home. We stayed for another 4.5 hours after they left. It was a gorgeous day. Since my parents were there Paul and I got the chance to ride the Phoenix once together (our favorite roller coaster). I was surprised to learn that Nadia is tall enough to ride that one. I think we'll wait until 2014 to let her try that one out. Both Ian and Nadia really enjoyed the two water rides (Skloosh and Flume). They rode both of them twice yesterday.
You definitely get a LOT wetter on the Skloosh so Paul opted out of riding the Skloosh yesterday. My parents took the kids on that once, and I took them once. We used to spend all our time in the kiddie rides area. We did spend some time there, but certainly not all our time. We got the kids handstamps and then bought a book of tickets for the four adults to share. We had brought food from home for our lunches, bought some ice cream for a snack in the afternoon, and shared a large pizza for dinner in the park. We had a wonderful day. I can't wait until Oliver is big enough to also enjoy riding rides! I'm hoping our trips to amusement parks will also be a fond memory for our kids when they are older. This year we've ridden rides at Knoebels (Friday will be our 4th trip), Sesame Place, Sea World, the Lycoming Fair, Del Grosso's, and the Magic Kingdom!














Sunday, August 4, 2013

First Birthday Party!



Although Oliver's birthday isn't until Wednesday, we celebrated it this afternoon. Our kids' four grandparents and one Great Gram came to celebrate his first year of life. Paul's family arrived around 2:30pm and the kids enjoyed doing puzzles with Gram, hearing one of Pop Pop's many original stories, and being read to by each of them. As you can see from the photo below, Pop Pop and Oliver also took an afternoon nap. My parents arrived around 4:30pm and soon after we sat down to have dinner. I made lasagna, beef noodle bake, a fresh fruit salad, green beans, and garlic bread for dinner. After that we let Oliver have his birthday cake. Ian didn't have any cake until he was almost 3 years old so I have no "cake smash" photos of him. Nadia dug into the cake more than Oliver did. I could have left his shirt on as he didn't get very messy. I'm going to make brownies and serve them on his actual birthday and see if he digs into that a bit more vigorously. Then the rest of us had dessert. I made banana bread and Aunt Millie made cupcakes, chocolate cake with peanut butter icing, and cookies.



 After dessert, it was time for Oliver to open his three presents.  As expected he was too young to understand what to do with wrapping paper so his brother and sister unwrapped his gifts. He got a new swing for our swing set from my parents, a new toy (that Ian has really been enjoying) from Great Gram, and some new clothes from Paul's parents. Oliver was most interested in eating the envelopes, cards, and wrapping paper. We are very thankful for our little Oliver!








 

Saturday, August 3, 2013

Nap Time



One of the reasons I am glad that theatre camp is over is because it meant Ian and Oliver's afternoon naps were in the van and Nadia didn't have a nap or quiet time. I love my kids dearly, but that little break from them is good for me also, and I didn't get that the past 6 days due to Seussical and Theatre Camp. Oliver's morning naps have been pathetic - 15 to 25 minutes long every day. I tried letting him cry it out one morning for almost 3 hours to no avail. I was determined to help him have a longer afternoon nap today to try to break this 15-25 minute nap habit that he's gotten into. I let him sleep on me, but he still had a short nap. I gave him a little milk and got him back to sleep again and that time he slept much longer on me. We went to the pool this afternoon. I've had to modify my "rule" and make the minimum temperature 75 degrees otherwise we wouldn't have gone swimming the past two weeks. I normally love it when the weather is in the 70's, but I'd like it to be a bit warmer when we swim. The water temperature was 84 degrees three weeks ago and now it's down to 74 degrees. Below you will find the 8 minute video of yesterday's performance. Enjoy!


Friday, August 2, 2013

Jack and the Beanstalk

 
 

Today was the last day of Nadia's theatre camp. I am breathing a sigh of relief. Ian and Oliver enjoyed playing in the Treasure Castle Playland three days this week during Nadia's camp. Ian made HUGE progress with his ability to climb this week. At first he was too scared to even want to try, then he could only do it with a little help, and by Thursday afternoon he could do it all by himself very easily. He was proud of his accomplishment, and so was I! The Kindle didn't arrive before we left yesterday so I brought my laptop instead. Today I brought my Kindle. I love it! The Kindle Paperwhite is really, really easy on the eyes, which was one of the reasons I resisted buying an e-reader for so long. It's so small, which makes it really handy to take places and for a person like me who dislikes clutter, that's another added benefit as you can store hundreds of books on a small device. Now I'll be keeping my eyes open for books that Amazon has for free for the Kindle. I know that ereadergirl.com will be at least one of the sites I'll use to find out when Amazon temporarily has a book for free. Buying the Kindle inspired me to start using some other technology for the first time. Today I set up my phone so that I can answer it in a hands-free fashion using the steering wheel of the van. My next project will be to synchronize the garage door opener with one of the buttons in the van. Since we've owned the van for 11 months it's about time we started using these features, ha ha!

Nadia really enjoyed theatre camp. She wants to do it again next year. She kept talking about two other kids in the camp, one of which was Abby. Abby is 6 years old but is much taller than Nadia so it looks like there is far more than one year age difference between them. On Thursday Abby wrote in crayon on a piece of green construction paper what she said was her phone number (although it didn't really have enough numbers to be a valid phone number). Today I heard Abby reminding Nadia that she should call her. How sweet. Abby told me she wanted to come home with us. Paul left work early to be able to join his parents in coming up to see this little production. He made a video of it, which I am going to upload to YouTube, but it's a big file so it's going to take a very long time for that to be complete. I'll hopefully be able to share it here tomorrow.



 
 

Thursday, August 1, 2013

All Shopped Out!

I took the boys shopping with me during Nadia's theatre camp on Tuesday and Wednesday. Over the course of those two days we shopped at two consignment shops (both were having a 50% off sale of almost everything in the store), Staples, Target, Michael's, Kohl's, Payless, JCP, and Aldi's. Those are just the stores where I bought at least one thing. We were in several other stores in the mall trying to find a swim shirt for Paul. I was able to cross quite a few things off of a list that had been growing for many months that included a variety of random things such as new pillows (a few of ours were in awful shape), frames for Paul's degrees so he can display them in his office at BU, a new briefcase type bag for Paul as the backpack he's used for more than 10 years was falling apart, a few new frames for displaying pics of the kids in our bedroom, and a new bath towel. Today I bought myself a top and a necklace at JCP for $25.58 total. I am going to wear those with a skirt I've had a very long time for our family photo in 9 days. I am definitely taking the boys to the playland today and tomorrow because I have zero desire to do any more shopping with them aside from the grocery store. I wish Aldi's was closer to our home. On Tuesday I got a gallon of skim milk for 99 cents and two pints of blueberries for $1.70 each at that store. Wow! I also stocked up on their 99 cent boxes of animal crackers as all three kids have been wanting to eat a lot of those lately.

I also did a little online shopping on Tuesday night because our Amazon Prime subscription was ending that day. I bought a new swing for Oliver for our swingset in the backyard because the one I got Nadia almost 5 years ago is falling apart. I also bought myself a Kindle. I received a $100 gift card from Snapfish a few weeks ago for giving them feedback on their photo books, and I kept going back and forth in my mind how to spend it. First, I put two dresses in my shopping cart at Chadwicks.com, but then I decided I'd rather have a Kindle. I have been dragging my heels regarding getting an e-reader because I prefer to read books and magazines on paper rather than electronically, but sometimes I've really wanted to read a book that I can get for free electronically (through Amazon or the local library) that I can't get a print copy of for free. I've used the Kindle app on my laptop several times, but my laptop is not exactly easy to lug around just to read a book. My brother-in-law Drayton's job involves working with tablets and e-readers so I took his advice and got a Kindle Paperwhite.

I'm hoping the UPS man delivers it before we leave for theatre camp today so I can use it while we spend almost 3 hours at the playland this afternoon. I am also sensing my resistance toward smart phones going down as well. I think that when we renew our cell phone plan in two years, I will probably go that route even though it will mean a significant increase in our monthly bill. I guess at some point I'll have to join the modern culture of texting and apps and going on the internet on one's phone. At some point I do want to get a tablet, as I know there are many very wonderful educational apps that the kids would enjoy and benefit from using, but I'm holding off on that now as I am trying to limit their screen time while they are so young. Since our television won't work some days, it has been very easy to eliminate all screen time for the kids some days!