Thursday, January 4, 2024

54 Years Old!

 

Yesterday Paul turned 54 years old. We met and started dating shortly after he turned 27, so that means we've been together for half of his life. Since I was 24 (almost 25) when we met and started dating, I had already hit that milestone of having been with Paul for half of my life a couple of years ago. WVIA usually has the free ski day at Elk Mountain in the Poconos the week of his birthday, and sometimes (like this year) it lands on his actual birthday. Because he had a trade show in early January in Baltimore each year, he often wasn't able to go to Elk Mountain. The last time that I skied was in January 2021 at Elk Mountain. I haven't skied since I had a plate and screws inserted in my ankle. In January 2022 I took four kids skiing. Nadia's friend, Jill, joined us that day. Last year, the WVIA day at Elk Mountain had to be rescheduled due to the weather. This meant that Paul was able to go skiing because it didn't interfere with the trade show. Since he sold the company, he is DONE attending trade shows. Woohoo! He feels like that's a Christmas gift to not be going to Baltimore next week. I asked Paul if he would rather ski or rather hang out with me in the ski lodge. He opted to hang out with me, so we invited Julianna to use our fourth pass from WVIA. Julianna had never gone skiing before. Paul and I played a game of Scrabble and a game of Rummikub while we were at the ski lodge. The six of us packed lunches, and we stopped at Red Robin for dinner on the way home. Because it was the first Wednesday of the month, we got two free kids' meals and two free ice cream sundaes. 


I made spaghetti and meatballs for dinner on Tuesday night because it's one of Paul's favorite things to eat. I had bought him a cheesecake, and we ate some of that tonight. I got him a big box of Middleswarth chips and a few candy bars for his birthday. The kids chipped in together to buy him a jigsaw puzzle featuring WW2 tanks. My dad gave him some money and a book. Paul recently ordered a new desk and a REALLY big computer monitor that he plans to use as his new home office in our bedroom. I got pizza for dinner tonight which is another of his favorite foods. I had won a prize pack from our local Christian radio station last week, and one of the prizes I received was a gift certificate for a free large pizza. I used that today. I'm planning to make him Heath bar cookies on Saturday, which are one of his favorite types of cookies. Hopefully he's had a good birthday week! 

WVIA used to have two days we could ski for free each year. The last time that happened was in 2020. It seems that WVIA days at Ski Sawmill are now a thing of the past. Ski Sawmill is much closer to our house. They have three homeschool days where they give a 50% discount for the lift ticket and rental. We're accustomed to skiing for free, but we'd like the kids to be able to go skiing twice this year so we're planning to pay for them to go skiing on a homeschool day on January 19 at Ski Sawmill. Knowing that our niece, Susie, tore her ACL when she went skiing a little over a year ago, we're very thankful that we all came home without any injuries yesterday. 

Monday, January 1, 2024

2024 Bucket List


For many years I used to post a list of goals at the start of the year. Lately, I've switched to posting a bucket list for the year that I modify throughout the year. Last year, we logged 110 first time experiences. Below is the current list of places I think we might visit, movies we might see, concerts we might attend, etc. for the first time over the next year. I'm sure things will be added and deleted throughout the year. That's not to say that we don't have goals that we're working toward or in some cases habits we've formed that we want to maintain. For example, I'm thankful we've finally gotten in the habit of having one family fun night a week (when the schedule permits), and I'm grateful that I averaged 13,654 steps per day in 2023 which was twice as much as 2022. We're still working to visit all 50 states (47 so far), all Canadian provinces (1 so far), 30 amusement parks (27 so far), 40 zoos/aquariums (31 so far), 200 National Park sites (130 so far), etc. 

  1. Watch the fourth season of All Creatures Great and Small on PBS - DONE!
  2. See the movie Boys in the Boat on DVD- Done!
  3. Attend the PA Farm Show - DONE!
  4. Attend a rodeo - DONE!
  5. Ian's first solo piano recital - DONE!
  6. Big Cypress National Park* - DONE!
  7. Feed tarpons - DONE!
  8. Lion Country Safari - DONE!
  9. McCarthy's Wildlife Sanctuary - DONE!
  10. Laura Quinn Wild Bird Sanctuary - DONE!
  11. Airboat ride - DONE!
  12. Tram ride through Shark Valley - DONE!
  13. Everglades National Park* - DONE!
  14. Dry Tortugas National Park* - DONE!
  15. Visit Robert is Here in Florida - DONE!
  16. John Pennekamp Coral Reef State Park - DONE!
  17. Glass bottom boat tour - DONE!
  18. Turtle Hospital- DONE!
  19. Bahai Honda State Park- DONE!
  20. Visit the Towfighis at their house in Quito, Ecuador - DONE!
  21. White water rafting in Ecuador- DONE!
  22. Canyoning in Ecuador - Done!
  23. Pailon del Diablo waterfall in Ecuador - DONE!
  24. Intinan Museum in Quito - DONE!
  25. Basilica de Vota Nacional - DONE!
  26. Church of La Compania de Jesus - DONE!
  27. Biscayne National Park*- DONE!
  28. Eat at Bahama Breeze - Done!
  29. See Tim Hawkins - Done!
  30. Ian and Nadia participate in Seussical the Musical at MCS - Done!
  31. Watch the first three seasons of The Baxters on Prime - Done!
  32. See Daniel at Sight and Sound - Done!
  33. Mack Truck Museum - Done!
  34. Carrabba's Italian Grill - Done!
  35. National Gallery of Art - Done!
  36. Attend a concert featuring TobyMac, Tasha Layton, Cory Asbury, Mac Powell, etc. - Done!
  37. Fonthill Castle - Done!
  38. The Tileworks - Done!
  39. Mercer Museum - Done!
  40. See the movie Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes (on DVD) - Done!
  41. See the movie Someone Like You at the theatre with Nadia - Done!
  42. Washington Monument - Done!
  43. Steven Curtis Chapman concert - Done!
  44. National Museum of American History - Done!
  45. Holocaust Museum - Done!
  46. Winter Jam - Done!
  47. White House tour* - Done!
  48. See the movie Cabrini - Done!
  49. See the movie Ordinary Angels - Done!
  50. See the movie Boys in the Boat - Done!
  51. National Portrait Gallery - Done!
  52. Rock Creek Park* - Done!
  53. Supreme Court - Done!
  54. Attend a Casting Crowns concert with a live symphony - Done!
  55. International Spy Museum - done!
  56. Prince Caspian at the Museum of the Bible - done!
  57. Ford's Theatre* - done!
  58. National Archives - done!
  59. See the movie Unsung Hero at the theatre with Nadia - done!
  60. Kings Dominion - Done!
  61. Maggie Walker National Historic Site* - Done!
  62. Fort Monroe National Monument* - Done!
  63. Virginia Aquarium - Done!
  64. Virginia Beach - Done!
  65. Busch Gardens Williamsburg - Done!
  66. George Washington Birthplace - Done!
  67. Fredericksburg National Military Park* - Done!
  68. Chancellorsville Battlefield* - Done!
  69. Spotsylvania Battlefield - Done!
  70. Prince William Forest Park* - Done!
  71. Monocacy National Battlefield* - Done!
  72. Watch the fourth season of The Chosen on the Chosen app - Done!
  73. Water skiing lessons - Done!
  74. See the movie Sight - done!
  75. See a movie at the drive-in for the first time - done!
  76. Nadia and Ian compete in Bible quizzing nationals at Houghton - done!
  77. See a performance of Oliver! - done!
  78. HersheyPark with the Towfighis - done!
  79. See the movie Arthur the King on DVD -done!
  80. Nadia flies to Chicago by herself for the firsr time ever - done!
  81. Nadia gets her learner's permit - done!
  82. See the movie Kung Fu Panda 4 (streaming) - done!
  83. CN Tower-done!
  84. Fort York -done!
  85. Ripley's Aquarium -done!
  86. Toronto Zoo - done!
  87. Canada's Wonderland - done!
  88. Oliver and Paul see the movie IF at the theater - done!
  89. See Despicable Me 4 - done!
  90. Highland Chocolates Factory tour - done!
  91. Leonard Harrison State Park - done!
  92. Old Bedford Village - done!
  93. Nadia spends four weeks at Camp Susque as a SIT - done!
  94. Fort Roberdeaux - done!
  95. Stronghold camp with four cousins - done!
  96. Hopewell Furnace NHS - done!
  97. Ned Smith Nature and Arts Festival - done!
  98. See The Fall Guy - done!
  99. Alaska Native Heritage Center - done!
  100. Alaska Wildlife Conservation Center- done!
  101. Stoney Creek Zipline - done!
  102. Alaska SeaLife Center- done!
  103. Eat at Moose's Tooth Pizza- done!
  104. Anchorage Museum- done!
  105. Winner Creek Trail- done!
  106. Stay at a bed and breakfast- done!
  107. Exit Glacier- done!
  108. Kenai Fjords National Park cruise*- done!
  109. White water rafting at Chugach Outdoor Center- done!
  110. Running Reindeer Ranch- done!
  111. Denali National Park Tundra wilderness tour- done!
  112. Hike trails at Denali - done!
  113. See a sled dog demonstration- done!
  114. Eat at The Crepery- done!
  115. Museum of the North- done!
  116. Musk Ox Farm - done!
  117. Eat gelato - done!
  118. Husky Homestead - done!
  119. Large Animal Research Station - done!
  120. Reindeer Farm - done!
  121. See a performance of Pilgrim's Progress - done!
  122. See the movie Sound of Hope on the Angel app - done!
  123. Watch the second season of the Wingfeather Saga on the Angel app - done!
  124. Attend Tuck Everlasting musical - done!
  125. Johannes Mueller House - done!
  126. Nadia attends College for a Weekend at Liberty University - done!
  127. See the musical Anastasia at Liberty University - done!
  128. Get a free ice cream for Milo at Becky's on a Tuesday - done!
  129. See Inside Out 2 on Disney+ - done!
  130. All three kids audition to be part of the Wizard of Oz - done!
  131. Kids attend a fall retreat at Camp Susque - done!
  132. Nadia starts a new job at Warrior Run Petcare - done!
  133. See the movie Bonhoeffer - done!
  134. See the movie The Forge - done! 
  135. Ian sees Sonic the Hedgehog 3 - done! 
  136. Oliver sees Lord of the Rings: The War of the Rohirrim - done!
  137. Spend two days at Camelback Resort - done!
  138. Ian attends winter camp for the first time - done!
*Junior Ranger badge




Sunday, December 31, 2023

2023 by the numbers

1 - We went skiing once at Elk Mountain. We got a new range for our kitchen. We attended our first hockey game. Nadia and Ian sang in one concert with Meadowbrook Christian School. The kids each had their first flight lesson in June. Nadia took the PSAT for the first time. We participated in an escape room for the first time. We attended a Blue Angels air show for the first time. For the first time since I was in 8th grade, I'm in a church that is in the middle of a church split. Our church has many pastors because our weekly attendance usually exceeds 2,000 people. The senior pastor fired one of the other pastors in November, and immediately a group of people from our church left to start a new church, and the pastor who was fired is the pastor at the new church. Often there is a fallout when a senior pastor retires, and when ours retired in 2021 he had been there for 40 years. We didn't experience much attrition in the first 2.5 years after he retired, but it's happening now. For now, we are not leaving our church. When our previous senior pastor retired, there were really three pastors in our church who "could" have been chosen to become the next senior pastor. I'm not surprised Pastor Ryan has become a senior pastor. He's a gifted preacher, but I didn't expect him to become a senior pastor at another church right in this same small area. Some other staff have left over his departure. It will be some time before we really know what the total fallout is from this. 

2 - Paul and his brother sold two companies at the end of July! Nadia was in two performances of Mary Poppins in May. Nadia completed her first two college courses this fall (General Psychology and US History); she's currently in the middle of her third course through Grand Canyon University. We visited two indoor water parks this year. The kids went roller skating twice at Trout Pond Park. Nadia and Ian had two art teachers this year. They took an art class once a week at the homeschool co-op from January through May and from August to the present have been in an art class twice a week at Meadowbrook Christian School. We made two trips to Chicago to visit my sister's family and two trips to Lynchburg, Virginia - one to say goodbye to Margie and the second for her funeral. Milo and Grandpa joined us for our second trip to Chicago. 

3 - Milo turned three on September 30. Over the course of the year, we had a total of three guinea pigs living in our home. Buttercup passed away and then Lily joined our family, which means we currently have two guinea pigs. Nadia and Ian sang in three concerts with the Susquehanna Valley Youth Chorale. The kids and I attended a three-day Christian music festival at Six Flags Darien Lake. I organized three field trips for homeschoolers (Eckley Miners Village, Warrior Run Church, and Curtin Village/Bald Eagle State Park). As a family we saw three movies in the theater this year - His Only Son, The Shift, and Because of Bethlehem. Paul and Oliver also saw the Mario movie, and I also saw Sound of Freedom in the theater. 


4- We visited four amusement parks this summer - three in Pennsylvania and one in New York. It was our first-time visiting Kennywood which was our 27th amusement park we've been to as a family. We spent four days at Great Wolf Lodge with the Towfighis at the end of May. Nadia, Ian, and I served for four hours at the Operation Christmas Child distribution center in Baltimore for the first time. Four of us own cell phones as of this fall. Nadia got her first phone last year, but she could only use it on Wi-Fi until this fall when she got her first phone number and was added to our plan. 

5 - I was in the Sound of Music this fall. We put on five performances over the course of four days. Ian, Oliver, Xandir, Micah, and Isaiah spent five half-days at a Stronghold (foam sword fighting camp). The kids attended five game days with other homeschoolers - twice at our home, once at the Schrecks, and twice at the Schaffers. We received five passports in the mail. Paul and I renewed ours. Nadia and Ian received their second ones, and Oliver received his first passport. Nadia and Ian attended five Christmas parties (Oliver went to three of them) - two at church, one at a friend’s home, one at the roller-skating rink, and one at the ice-skating rink. 

6 - Ian, Oliver, and Xandir spent six days at camp at PMBC. We hosted a six-week session of a homeschool co-op at our home this fall. 

7 - Not counting relatives, we had families over for dinner at our home seven times this year, which was fewer times than last year, but this year we also hosted two games days (for kids) plus six sessions of a homeschool co-op. At least part of our family (and sometimes all five of us) volunteered to pack aid (hygiene kits, food, etc.) with Experience Missions seven times over the course of the year. We didn't fly anywhere from 2019-2022, but in 2023 I purchased tickets for us to fly seven times in 2023/24 (flight to Seattle in August 2023, flight from San Francisco in September 2023, flight to Miami for February 2024, flight to Quito for February 2024, flight from Quito for February 2024, and roundtrip flights to Anchorage for August 2024).

9 - The kids had nine ice skating lessons and attended three parties at the ice-skating rink.

11 - Oliver turned eleven on August 7. We visited eleven zoos/aquariums this year. Ten were ones we had never been to before bringing our cumulative total of zoos/aquariums that we've been to 31. Ian read eleven books this year. Last year he read 27 books, but some of the books he read this year were more than 700 pages long. 

12 - Nadia worked twelve shifts at Reptiland between June 12 and August 11.

14 - Ian turned fourteen on December 12.  

15 - Nadia turned fifteen on June 24. Ian had fifteen piano lessons with Lyn DeVito and participated in a duet piano recital for the first time. 

17 - Nadia spent seventeen days at Camp Susque. Oliver read seventeen books this year (compared to twenty-one last year).

22 - As of August 11, Paul and I have been married for twenty-two years. Nadia read twenty-two books this year (down from 67 last year).

35 - We visited 35 National Park sites this year bringing our cumulative total to 130.

42 - The kids each earned around forty-two Junior Ranger badges this year (compared to 36 last year). Nadia and Ian have each earned at least two hundred badges altogether. 

47 - This year we visited six states that we hadn't been in before as a family - Missouri, Kansas, Nebraska, Washington, Oregon, and Nevada. This brought our grand total to forty-seven states that we've spent time in over the last few years.  

49 - We saw the license plates for 49 of 50 states (plus DC and several Canadian provinces). The state we never spotted was Wyoming. Numbers 48 and 49 were Vermont and Hawaii. Last year we spotted 48, and the two we couldn't find last year were North Dakota and Hawaii. 

51 - I turned 51 on April 21.

53 - Paul turned 53 on January 3. 

54 - The kids went on 54 field trips this year. 

56 - I wrote 56 blog posts this year which was a new record low (compared to 78 last year which had been the record low). I made the blog more private about half-way through the year because the number of people reading the blog skyrocketed this summer for some unknown reason. 

80- I've either read or listened to a total of 80 books (not including the ones I did with the kids) of which 29 were nonfiction, which was a higher percentage than usual for me. That is eleven more than I read/listened to last year.

94 - This year we listened to (or I read aloud) a total of 94 audiobooks (down from 113 last year). Altogether over the last eleven years we've listened to 1,024 books. Fifty-four of those were rereads, which means the total number of unique titles would be 970.

955 - My current Duolingo streak is 955 days. I typically spend about 30 minutes a day learning Spanish via this app. Over the last 2.5 years I've completed six of the eight sections, which means I'm supposedly recently entered the early B2 level of CEFR (having completed the A1, A2, and B1 sections). Duolingo constantly revises their program. A moving target can be frustrating, but at least I know I'm moving forward. 

13,654 = the number of steps I averaged per day in 2023 according to my phone. *Most* days I walk Milo for at least four miles over the course of a day. The exception would be on rainy days as my walking buddy hates to get wet. 



Thursday, December 14, 2023

14 years old!

 


For the past four months my kids ages have been two years apart, but that changed on Tuesday when Ian turned 14. He and Pop Pop blew out candles on a birthday cake on December 3. I made him peanut butter cup cookies for his birthday as peanut butter cups are his favorite type of candy. On December 11 we left our home around 9:00am to drive to the Kalahari resort in the Poconos; we ate the lunches we packed in the van. Check-in was a very quick process at a kiosk, and although usually you can't get into your room until 4pm, our room was already ready. We headed straight to the water park and spent about five hours there before we changed back into dry clothes and drove to Perkins to have dinner. The kids could have spent two more hours in the water park after we got back from having dinner, but they opted to hang out in our room instead. Oliver watched tv, Ian played on the Switch and iPad, and Nadia used her Chromebook. I worked on Ian's birthday video (see above). Nadia gave Ian a plush banana slug, Pop Pop gave him a $50 Apple gift card, Uncle Al and Aunt Millie gave him $20, and we gave him a Mario game for the Switch and a tripod for his phone that he wants to use when making stop motion movies. He had received two of his birthday gifts from us early - his very first cell phone and a watch. On Tuesday morning I ran to Dunkin to buy donuts and five breakfast sandwiches. That food constituted our breakfast and lunch for the day. When I made tuna noodle the previous Saturday, I purposefully doubled the recipe so that we'd have enough to have it again on Tuesday night. Paul and Ian also had some of the pork tenderloin that was left over from my dad's birthday dinner on Sunday. After dinner we went to Meadowbrook Christian School as Nadia and Ian sang in five of the songs at their Christmas program. 


In December 2018, 2019, 2021, and 2022 we went to Great Wolf Lodge for one night for Ian's birthday. The kids and I went to the Kalahari in Sandusky, Ohio in August 2016, but we had never been to this particular resort. We still had the homeschool discount that we have had at GWL every time we've gone there, but Kalahari still costs quite a bit more than GWL. We decided to give it a whirl once. There are different pros/cons between the two parks. GWL has a better wave pool and has the lily pad feature that my kids enjoy. Kalahari has more water slides including mat slides. Altogether though I would say there is a better value to be had at GWL. If was up to Nadia, she would have spent the entire time in either the lazy river or the jacuzzi. At Kalahari you could be inside or outside while in the jacuzzi (even in the winter) which was different than GWL. Next year we're planning to try Camelback (another indoor water park resort in the Poconos), and then we're going to let Nadia pick in 2025 which one we go to as that will likely be her last hurrah as she'll be a senior in high school that year and probably won't be able to join us during Ian's last two years of high school. 

Here are 14 descriptions of our 14-year-old:

1. He enjoys playing the piano. He started taking lessons with Lyn DeVito in August and performed The Waltz of the Flowers with Josh in his first duet piano recital in November. He's currently working on a Christmas song that incorporates some classical music and also a Mario song that he plans to play at the recital in February. His piano teacher recently started working on teaching him to also play by ear.

2. Although he hasn't spent as much time as I hoped he would on learning Python the last four months, he still says he wants to study computer programming in college.

3. He's set a goal of being on the "A" team from our church at the Bible quizzing nationals in June. It's within his reach, but there is tough competition this year. I'm pleased that he's striving toward that goal. He's memorized several chapters of Ephesians and Galatians so far. He won first place in the individual competition at the practice quiz in Ohio last month!

4. He enjoys foam sword fighting with the Stronghold club in Winfield. His favorite weapon is a spear.

5. He has a beautiful voice. I usually wish that he would open his mouth wider and smile more at concerts. He sang at three concerts with the Susquehanna Valley Youth Chorale in November and December. He opened his mouth more at the Christmas concert at Meadowbrook earlier this week because he said he couldn't see the audience.

6. He really enjoys our small homeschooling co-op. He especially enjoys spending time with Ben, Nathaniel, and Xandir. 

7. Ian loves to spend time with his cousins Nathan and Joel. 

8. He still loves to spend time playing with Legos, Nintendo Switch, and iPad (or his Android phone). 

9. So far, he's breezing through Algebra 2. He'll be resuming the General Science textbook he started last year tomorrow. Next fall when he enters 9th grade, he'll be taking Chemistry and Geometry. 

10. He had two more baby teeth extracted by the dentist recently at the request of the orthodontist. He lost his retainer in the summer, so he's been enjoying chewing gum the last several months. He will be starting phase two with the orthodontist in February. 

11. When I pick him up from the youth center at church, he's usually playing either ping pong, pool, or foosball. He's enjoying our new foosball table that was an early Christmas gift. 

12. He almost always has cold cereal for breakfast. Some of his favorites are Captain Crunch, Fruity Pebbles, and Reese's Puffs. He almost always has a peanut butter and orange marmalade sandwich and half an apple (dipped in peanut butter) for lunch. His favorite ice cream is Moose Tracks. 

13. Ian enjoys reading Sonic comic books. Over the past six months he read Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling, The Second Mrs. Gioconda by E.L. Konigsburg, The Prince and the Pauper by Mark Twain, and The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien. 

14. The thing I most appreciate about Ian, aside from his hugs, would be his sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. I look forward to seeing how Ian will grow physically, spiritually, socially, academically, and emotionally over the coming year! 

Grandpa was with us for his 80th birthday!


Monday, December 4, 2023

Birthdays!


This year we were with three of our nieces/nephews on their birthdays, which isn't typical because they live far away from us. In May we celebrated Joel's 12th birthday at Great Wolf Lodge, and last month we celebrated Jenna's 21st and Nathan's 15th birthdays at our home. I made Joel a carrot cake for his birthday and bought donuts and cookies for everyone another night on that trip. Jenna's birthday was the day before Thanksgiving this year. There were eleven people here for Jenna's birthday dinner: our family, Grandpa, her mom, Jenna, Toby, Andrew, and Nathan. She requested chili, rice, and peanut butter cookies. Nathan's birthday was the day after Thanksgiving. He requested sausage biscuits for breakfast. I bought four mylar birthday balloons, and the kids hung birthday banners throughout the house. We watched the movie "Sound of Freedom" and played games which included using our new foosball table. Grandpa slept in Oliver's bedroom. Nathan slept on the bottom bunk in Ian's bedroom, and Oliver slept on an air mattress in Ian's bedroom. Toby, Andrew, Yvonne, and Jenna used the two sofa beds downstairs. 


Ian's birthday (Dec 12) is very close to Aunt Janet's (Dec 9), my dad's (Dec 10), and Paul's dad's (Dec 20). From 2010-2017 we celebrated my dad's birthday and Ian's birthday together with my dad (2010-2015 also with my mom, 2016 just with my dad, and in 2017 with my dad and Margie). The last five years we only saw my dad at Christmas, not in conjunction with his birthday or Ian's birthday. In 2018 we started a tradition of going to Great Wolf Lodge for one night to celebrate Ian's birthday. We weren't able to go in 2020, but we went every other year since December 2018. Because we spent 3 nights at Great Wolf Lodge with the Towfighis earlier this year, we decided to give Kalahari a whirl this year for Ian's birthday. Although we're still getting a discount because we're going with a homeschool group, it costs a lot more than Great Wolf Lodge. We decided to try this Kalahari at least once. The kids and I were at the Kalahari in Ohio once in 2016. My dad is planning to drive up to Pennsylvania on Saturday so he will spend his 80th birthday with us this year. He'll then be seeing a show in Lancaster with Andrea. It will be the first time since 2017 that we were able to celebrate his birthday with him. 


Over the past 25 years I can only think of two times when we didn't spend time with several members of both sides of our family at Christmas. In 2020 we weren't with any relatives. In December 2022 the only person from Paul's side of the family that we saw was his dad. It had been almost exactly two years since Nadia, Ian, or I saw Al or Millie. Oliver had seen Uncle Al in March of 2022 when he took him to a concert. Because we are going to Chicago for Christmas this year, and because Al and Millie are very busy at their bakery in December, we ended up celebrating Ian's 14th birthday, Pop Pop's 82nd birthday, and Christmas yesterday. Shawn lives with Al and Millie. My kids haven't seen their cousin since 2021. He didn't come yesterday. I served ham steaks, au gratin potatoes, sweet potatoes, applesauce, cranberry sauce, mixed vegetables, and homemade rolls yesterday. Al and Millie brought cookies and a birthday cake. I think it was the earliest Christmas gift exchange we've ever had, but the kids weren't complaining about that, ha ha! 


The pictures in this post are from Nadia and Ian's concert in November, the day we volunteered at the Operation Christmas Child distribution center in Baltimore, the birthday cake from yesterday, and from the night Nadia and Ian sang at a Christmas tree lighting ceremony in Lewisburg. Other highlights from the past two weeks would include seeing the movie The Shift in the theater, seeing the musical "Not so perfect Christmas" and having dinner at Texas Roadhouse with Jenna, and getting a new dishwasher installed in our home. The one we bought eleven years ago decided to stop working over Thanksgiving while there were eleven people under our roof. The new one is much nicer than the one that was hauled away last week! I'm very appreciative of dishwashers, especially when we have company! 

Monday, November 20, 2023

First piano recital


I taught Ian to play the piano up until this August. One advantage of me being his teacher was the only cost involved was buying him music. One advantage of him taking lessons from someone else is he was able to participate in his first recital. It was a duet recital. In February he will participate in his first solo recital. The boys performed The Waltz of the Flowers on Saturday evening. All of the pieces in the duet recital were by Tchaikovsky. Paul's dad came to the recital and then spent some time at our home. He beat Ian in a game of chess and played a Mario game on the Switch with all three of his grandkids.


Yesterday Nadia and Ian sang in the Susquehanna Valley Youth Chorale's fall concert. They sang in this group in 2019 and 2022. The group was on hiatus in 2020-2021 due to COVID. The group was much bigger in 2019. Because they had fewer students, the concert had a LOT of solos. Neither of mine tried out for a solo so they spent a lot more time sitting in the audience at this concert compared to the other two fall concerts. In 2019 it was a patriotic theme (for Veteran's Day). Last year they performed music that was about music (ex. Do, Re, Mi). This year it was all Disney music. They accidentally omitted Nadia's name from the program. Ian needs to OPEN his mouth more, and both kids need to work on smiling. Nadia did smile during when they sang the original Mickey Mouse Clubhouse theme song. Paul's dad came up for the concert. One of Nadia's small group leaders and two girls from her small group also came to the concert. Nadia left with them because her group went to Olive Garden for dinner tonight. Pop Pop came back to our house. I gave Pop Pop and Oliver each a haircut. Pop Pop used our foosball table for the first time. He beat Oliver, and Ian beat Pop Pop. 



Thursday night the kids and I met Cheri at the movie theater where we saw the (musical) movie "Journey to Bethlehem." On Friday night, Paul took Oliver to Lancaster Bible College for a concert featuring Jordan Feliz and Colton Dixon. Ian had his piano recital on Saturday evening, and Nadia and Ian had their choir concert yesterday afternoon. Paul went to work today. Oliver and Nadia were home all day today. I took Ian to his piano lesson. Tomorrow Nadia will again stay home all day. I'm taking the boys to an orthodontist appointment. We don't have any plans to leave the house Wednesday through Saturday. 

Thursday, November 16, 2023

Winding Down


 Sunday was my last day for doing anything with the Sound of Music. There is a cast party at 4pm on December 10, but I won't be attending due to the fact that it's my father's 80th birthday (and he'll be up here that day) plus Nadia and Ian have a Christmas candlelight concert that same afternoon. Monday was Nadia and Ian's last regular Monday night rehearsal with the youth chorale. They have a dress rehearsal on Saturday morning and a short rehearsal on December 4, but we're done with the 2.5-hour commitment on Monday nights. Next fall it will be only a 1-hour commitment because Nadia and Ian will both be in the Valley Singers (high school group). Our six-week session of a small co-op in our home came to an end on Tuesday. I asked Paul to use Oliver's cotton candy machine to make the kids cotton candy as a treat on Tuesday, which contradicted what we talked about in the Health and Nutrition class I taught. The kids did a great job with their speeches. On Tuesday we had seven demonstrative speeches - Ben demonstrated how to clean a gun, Nathaniel demonstrated (outside) how to build a fire, Juliana demonstrated how to make a cheese pie, etc. She served that cheese pie at lunch after it had chilled in our refrigerator for a few hours. Last night was also the last night of The Chosen Bible study for the fall session for Paul and me. The study will resume on Wednesday nights in January.


We are planning to start another session on March 5. That session will likely last somewhere between 8-12 weeks. We're bouncing around ideas as to what classes we will offer during that session. Ideas have included drama (me), continuing the health and nutrition (me), geography (Paul), simple circuitry (Paul), book clubs, and chess club. If we continue the co-op next fall, Paul will teach a chemistry lab as Nadia and Ian will be taking chemistry next year. We've determined that one of the book groups will be discussing The Fellowship of the Ring by Tolkien, and another group will be discussing a Magic Treehouse or Imagination Station book. If we have a third group, we haven't determined what book they will be reading. I lead the discussions for two of the groups this session (Lion, Witch, and the Wardrobe and Prince and the Pauper). The Much Ado about Nothing group was on their own although I did supply a list of questions for them to discuss each week. 

Next week, because it's Thanksgiving, we also get one week off of art and chorus at the Christian school. Nadia and Ian usually have those two classes on Wednesday and Thursday afternoons. Next week is Nadia's last week of her U.S. History class through Grand Canyon University. She will get a week off and then will begin a communications class on December 4. 

More pictures were posted on Facebook from the musical. The photographer took the photos during our dress rehearsal. We were in costume, but we hadn't done our hair or makeup. I wore different jewelry for the performances than I wore for the dress rehearsal, for example. The lack of makeup/hair wasn't a big deal for the pictures of the nuns, but it was more noticeable for all of the other photos. Still, I'm very thankful for these photos to remember this event as I doubt that I'll audition to be in another musical. 

Since I don't have rehearsal tonight, I decided to make plans to do something with my friend before she has shoulder surgery and won't be able to drive for a few months. The kids and I are meeting her to see the movie Journey to Bethlehem and then have dinner with her at Panera.




Monday, November 13, 2023

First Place!!!


Only three kids from our church's Bible quizzing team traveled to Ohio this past Friday for a quizzing event. Their coach accidentally forgot to register them, so they were unable to compete as a team as planned. Ian was placed on another team from Pennsylvania, and the girls (Nadia and Leila) joined The Branch's team (Indiana). That team won first place in the team competition. Ian earned 8th place in the written portion of the competition. Nadia and Leila tied for seventh place in the finals of the individual competition, and Ian won FIRST place in the individuals!!! Christopher was one of the top quizzers, and he graduated from high school last spring. Ben is typically one of the top quizzers, and he didn't attend this quiz. However, the boy who has won the individuals at the national competition the last few years was Simon, and he was there. Simon came in second to Ian. I was in shock when I found this out!!! Way to go, Ian!! Both Ian and Nadia showed improvement from past years. Here's to hoping that will continue over the next seven months! At this quiz they only covered all of Galatians plus the first two chapters of Ephesians. There will be a wider array of content at the Nationals as they are studying five epistles this year. 


On Thursday night we had our first performance of The Sound of Music. The final performance was sold out, and Saturday's matinee was also very close to being sold out. In general, all five performances went very well. One exception would be the first eight syllables of one song on Thursday night. We nuns sang a lot of our songs acapella, and we were split into two locations for one of the songs. We didn't use a pitch pipe on Thursday night, and that was a big mistake as we started in multiple different keys and sounded hideous for those first eight syllables until we all made it to the same key. Thankfully that never happened again! At every performance the two cast members who got the biggest response during the bows were for Mother Abbess and Gretl. Gretl was just so cute; she turned eight during the production. Mother Abbess has a powerful set of lungs! Maria also did an amazing job. She's our version of Julie Andrews as she also played Mary Poppins a few years ago. Yvonne and the rest of her family who live in Quito were able to watch a livestream of Thursday night's performance. Her son, Andrew, who is in college in Ohio watched the livestream on Friday night. I don't believe any of my relatives watched either of the two performances on Saturday. Paul, the kids, Paul's dad, Cheri, and Tab all came to see the performance on Sunday afternoon. The first photo in this post is of everyone involved in the production - backstage crew, cast, directors, sound technicians, etc. 


In general, we brought our own meals when our rehearsals were long, but on Saturday a meal was provided in between our two performances. If I had been at someone's home and they served chicken and waffles, I. would have eaten it to be polite. In this case I opted to bring a bean burrito, but I did eat the delicious dessert they provided. I like waffles, and I like chicken, but the thought of mixing the two is repulsive to me, especially when gravy is involved as I don't like gravy on anything. The other time they provided food was last night. Pizza, veggies, and chips were available to eat after the show because we were expected to stay and help clean up the rooms we used, tear down the set, put away the props, etc. Last night was the first night in a week that I was able to go to bed prior to 11pm. It was so nice to go to bed at 9:30! Despite the fact that I got to bed at an earlier hour, it was still a long day as I left for church at 8:40 am and didn't come back home from church until 8:20 pm. I have a whole new appreciation for all that goes into putting on a musical!

I'm the one walking across the balcony in this scene.

It was very strange to only homeschool one child on Friday. In addition to doing his schoolwork, he and I worked on a Spiderman jigsaw puzzle that he had received for his birthday but hadn't put together yet. On Saturday afternoon Paul took Oliver to a Stronghold (foam sword fighting) competition that lasted for three hours and included time for a devotion plus some Minecraft competitions. On Saturday morning I made a casserole that Paul and Oliver had for dinner on Saturday night, and he and all three kids had it on Sunday night. 

 

Wednesday, November 8, 2023

Tech Week

The Sound of Music rehearsals have primarily been held on Tuesday and Thursday evenings along with several Saturday rehearsals. This week we have three long rehearsals (Monday- Wednesday) and then five performances (Thursday through Sunday). I believe this week will be record breaking for me in terms of the number of nights in a row that I am not in bed at home at 11pm. I am eagerly anticipating Monday night when I can resume by normal sleeping habits. The time change this past Sunday hasn't exactly helped as my body hadn't yet made the one-hour transition.

I recently realized I had totally forgotten to take Oliver's 11th birthday portrait. I have a frame in which there is a spot for a wallet size picture for most years (larger for birth and larger for age 18). The picture here was the one I snapped (3 months late) for Oliver's eleven-year-old portrait. A bigger mistake I made recently was that I *thought* I had bought tickets for Ian and Paul to see Tim Hawkins in Camp Hill. By the time I realized my error, the tickets were all sold out. I felt horrible about this mistake because Ian was really looking forward to seeing him in person. Hopefully in the future I'll be able to get tickets for him to see Tim Hawkins. I do have tickets for us to see TobyMac (all the kids really wanted to see him for the first time), and Tasha Layton is one of the other artists that will be at that concert, and she was on Nadia's "list" of artists she wanted to see whom she hasn't seen yet. I had tickets for a Steven Chapman concert, but that concert was cancelled. Not counting the artists she'd like to see again (Cain, Anne Wilson, For King and Country, and Matthew West are her top four artists I believe), I'm hoping in the next couple of years to be able to get tickets for her to see Riley Clemmons and Steven Curtis Chapman. Riley is on tour with Zach Williams for the next several months, and he's not one of her favorites so it will be a little while until I will likely get tickets for a Riley Clemmons concert. I hope to never make the mistake I made with the Tim Hawkins tickets again. 

Paul finished assembling the foosball table on Sunday afternoon! Some of the kids who come to our co-op on Tuesdays were able to play some foosball this week. While he was working on that I was raking leaves, trimming bushes, cleaning the fence, picking apples off the ground, etc. I was the substitute teacher for our Sunday School class this past Sunday. I taught a lesson on the book of Jude. Paul will have to go to The Chosen Bible study without me tonight due to a Sound of Music dress rehearsal. He took the kids to choir on Monday night and took Ian to his piano lesson yesterday because of my rehearsals. Normally Ian's piano lessons are in the morning, but his had to be rescheduled this week #1 because we had to pick a time that was also good for his duet partner and #2 Ian and Nadia are leaving for a Bible quizzing event in Ohio on Friday morning. He'll have one more rehearsal with Josh next Friday morning, and then their recital is the next day. Nadia can't wait until he's done practicing The Waltz of the Flowers. She's tired of it! Paul is also taking five kids on a field trip tomorrow morning to attend a program about beavers for homeschoolers in grades 6-12 at a state park located one hour away. I'm very thankful he can help out more this week in light of my crazy rehearsal/performance schedule. I'm in six scenes of the musical - five as a nun and one as Frau Zeller. I have VERY little time to change from my party dress (when I'm Frau Zeller) back into my nun costume. On Monday I didn't make it back on stage on time. The director changed what time some of us are exiting the stage from the party, and I made it on time (with assistance) last night. Although I never plan to do this again, it has been quite a learning experience for me!






Wednesday, November 1, 2023

Trunk or Treat

The last time I wore a costume was when I was in a passion play at a church in Maryland in the early 90's. Last year Nadia and I provided a trunk for our church's trunk or treat, but we went with a Steelers theme, so I just wore a Steelers sweatshirt. This year the kids wanted us to do a Mario theme. We ordered costumes before we knew that the youth group was also doing a Mario theme. Ian and Oliver helped as candy runners. Ian demonstrated an excellent work ethic. Because the youth was doing the same theme, Nadia, wearing a Princess Rosalina costume, helped out inside with the youth group. Most of the teens were toads. Last year we brought Milo, and he became very cold as the evening wore on. This year the temperatures were much warmer on the day the event was held, but we are still glad we didn't bring Milo because the vehicle next to us had a dog, and I think it would have been difficult to keep the two dogs separated. I'm not sure when Paul last wore a costume, but I can say it had to be prior to when I met him in 1997. He was Luigi, and I was Mario riding Yoshi. I am assuming we'll wear these costumes again at some point. 

Our co-op has been meeting on Tuesdays. Usually, the kids bring their lunches and play chess for 90 minutes after lunch. Because Halloween fell on a Tuesday, one mom brought pizza and Rice Krispy treats, another mom brought soda and pumpkins, and I provided chips, plates, napkins, and cups. The kids enjoyed having a special lunch and carving pumpkins instead of playing chess. The temperature was MUCH colder yesterday than it was last Friday night. Paul took the kids and Milo trick or treating for about one-hour last night while I was at a Sound of Music rehearsal that lasted from 6:30-10:40pm. I got home and immediately went to bed. I was bone tired and had an awful headache. I can pretty much guarantee I won't be signing up to be in another musical. I woke up with a headache and really didn't want to get up (which is very unusual for me), but thankfully after I took Milo for his walk and ate my breakfast, my headache went away. Last Saturday the kids and Paul helped pack food at Experience Missions for 3.5 hours while I was at a 6-hour Sound of Music rehearsal. It was Paul's first-time packing food and also his first-time being at Experience Missions. I have five rehearsals and five performances between November 2-12, and then I'm done. Thank goodness!

Nadia and the youth pastor's wife

Four times a year there are five Sundays in a month. When that happens, all the children and youth are expected to attend the worship service with their parents. Our kids do that all the time so it just means Paul and I can't attend our Sunday School class on a fifth Sunday. We usually attend the 9:00 service together, but since we could only attend one service, we attended the 10:45 service this past Sunday. After having lunch at home, we saw the play Cheaper by the Dozen in Williamsport. On Saturday night it was my pick for family fun night. I chose for us to play the card game hearts. I didn't know how to play ANY card games when I went to college, and I don't want that to be the case for my kids so I'm trying to teach them several card games over the next few years. On Saturday afternoon while I was at my rehearsal, they had started watching the movie "A Man for All Seasons" which I was requiring them to watch as we recently studied King Henry VIII and Thomas More in history. Paul enjoyed it the most, and Nadia disliked it the most. Paul chose finishing the movie for his family fun night on Sunday night.

Nadia with two friends from their Bible quizzing team

 
Our trunk