Thankful Thursday

 

1. From September 19- December 7 Nadia will have spent 9 out of 12 weekends at Camp Susque. Six of those weekends she was/will be working in the kitchen for a small stipend. This weekend she's serving as a volunteer in the kitchen, one weekend she was there for an overnight birthday party, and one weekend in November she'll be there as a participant in a youth retreat with our church's youth group. She typically leaves our home in the late afternoon on a Friday and comes back in the afternoon on Sunday. I miss her when she's gone, but I think God is using these times of separation to help me transition to when she'll be living in Virginia at Liberty University starting in August 2026. I'm thankful she has made many friends at Camp Susque, and I'm thankful she is willing to serve in this ministry by cooking, doing dishes, etc. for those attending various retreats there this fall. Now that she has her license, she can drive herself to and from Camp Susque in Paul's car.

2. On one of the rare weekends that Nadia was at home, she had coffee and lunch with a friend from camp on a Saturday afternoon. The next day she went home from church with a friend from church and spent about 3 hours at her house before it was time for her to work at the kennel. 

3. Last Friday the boys served as candy runners at our church's trunk or treat event. I got Oliver's M&M costume at a thrift store. I paid what felt like a fortune for Ian's Captain Hook costume for our co-op's upcoming production of Peter Pan. While the boys were helping out at church, Nadia was at Camp Susque, and Paul and I were at a ballroom dancing lesson. Oliver has two costumes for Peter Pan (he's the crocodile and the dog), but he hates those costumes, so I doubt he'll ever wear them outside of our Peter Pan performance in three weeks.

4. The kids all had dentist appointments on Monday. I've been a mom for seventeen years, and this was the first appointment that included the words "has a cavity." If the cavity doesn't grow, they are going to wait until Oliver's braces come off to fix it. We are now trying to have him get in the habit of brushing his teeth after every meal. I'm thankful that *so far* Ian and Nadia haven't had any cavities.

5. For several years a man at our church has been playing hymns in between the first and second service and after the second service on a grand piano in the church's lobby. I was recently recruited to be one of his substitutes. He has been ill recently, and the other two women who substitute for him weren't able to play this past Sunday due to other responsibilities they had at church last week, so I was asked to play. I haven't played the piano much at all in recent years so that was a delight. Speaking of the piano, I have really been enjoying listening to Ian practice the piano the last several months. In the past there were months when none of the rest of us liked the music he chose to play. Last week he asked his teacher to choose an additional song for him to work on, and she loaned him a Christmas book by Dino, which was from the late 80's. My sisters and I used to play his music in the 80's and 90's. He's doing an excellent job preparing for the challenging classical piece he plans to play in the recital in February. 

6. For the first about 4.5 years that Milo lived with us, he slept with Ian half of the time and Nadia the other half of the time. The only time he slept with Paul and me was when both Ian and Nadia were away. The first week of July all three kids were at camp, so Milo slept with us. In June he had slept with Ian for two weeks straight while Nadia was at camp. For whatever reason, Milo started to object to sleeping with Ian when he returned from camp in July. We allowed him to sleep with us thinking this would change once Nadia came home, but it didn't. Earlier this month when Cooper was with us, we asked the kids to take Milo so that we wouldn't have two dogs in our bedroom. This was a total disaster. Milo was vomiting, peeing, and pooping in their beds or on their bedroom carpets. Cleaning up messes in the middle of the night in all three of their bedrooms was much worse than having two dogs in our room so we let Milo sleep with us again. If I could go back in time, I wish we had taught Milo to sleep on a dog bed in one of our bedrooms. Although Paul also doesn't sleep as well when Milo is in our bed, he was more willing to tolerate the inconvenience. In addition to getting less sleep, when Milo curls up near our heads our allergies are affected. Earlier this week I declared I was done sleeping with a dog. Either I'd sleep on a couch or a different bed, or Milo would have to sleep elsewhere. If Milo lives to be fourteen, I'd be sleeping with him for nine more years, and I'm unwilling to lose sleep on a regular basis for that many years. The "good" nights (in which I still get a good night's sleep) are way too few and far between for me to keep this up for months and years on end. Paul has graciously offered to assist Milo in learning to sleep in a crate at night. I bought him some new dog treats that Paul is using in the process. Milo is spending part of the night in our bed, but when Paul is ready for bed (a few hours later than me) he puts Milo in his crate, and Paul sleeps on the couch next to the crate. The first night was rough, but he didn't cry that much the second night. Hopefully, it won't take that many days for Milo to adjust to the new normal of sleeping in his crate either in the kitchen or in one of our bedrooms. Paul definitely loves Milo very much!

Thankful Thursday

1. Teaching a teenager to drive is definitely not my favorite thing to do, and letting a teenager drive independently, especially when all my children are in the vehicle, is a bit nerve wracking at first. Thankfully, all has gone smoothly over the first almost three weeks of driving solo.to both of her jobs, picked up pizza for our family for dinner, and driven herself and her brothers to art class at our church. Three of those places are located 5-15 minutes from our home. Camp Susque is about 40 minutes away. The first time she drove there, she took the wrong exit and then got back on the highway headed the wrong direction. Thankfully, she had left early enough that she wasn't late for work despite the drive taking longer than normal. She had no trouble coming back home from Camp Susque. Hopefully things will continue to go as smoothly as possible when she's driving in the days, weeks, months, and years to come. 

2. On October 3, Tab met me at Ian's piano teacher's house so that we could walk and talk during his 45-minute lesson. What a treat that was!

3. Paul, Ian, Oliver, and I were able to pack meals at Experience Missions on October 4, and all five of us were able to help pack meals at our church on October 11. 

4. Jenna and Toby joined us for dinner at Applebee's in Hershey on October 5. 

5. Our family really enjoyed a Matthew West, MercyMe, and TobyMac concert on October 5. Paul said it was one of the best concerts he's ever attended in his life. Knowing that Nadia is a senior, it's possible that concert might end up being the last one the five of us attend together. Time will tell, but the days are numbered. 

6. The past two Mondays we found out Ian was scheduled to play the keyboard with the youth praise team on Wednesday night. His piano teacher moved his lesson from Friday to Tuesday both weeks so that she could work with him on the songs. 

7. I am thankful for the ability to be flexible with homeschool curriculum. I decided that Fix It Grammar wasn't sufficient for Oliver. So, I purchased a used copy of Giggly Grammar that I'm using with him this year. Also, since he hasn't listened to or read nearly as many books as his siblings had at his age, I decided he needed a vocabulary textbook. We've added that to his daily schedule. 

8. Since Nadia is a senior, I decided to go a different direction in the resources used for Bible class/ family devotions this year. The first book wasn't a big hit (The Discipline of Grace by Jerry Bridges), but the family really enjoyed the last three books - The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel, Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus by Nabeel Qureshi, and Not a Fan by Kyle Idleman.

9. Ian and Oliver attended Xandir's 13th birthday party on October 12. Birthday party invitations are a rare treat for my kiddos, so they are greatly appreciated. 

10. I think that finding deals for our trip to Europe will be few and far between, but I used some leftover Alaskan airline miles to reserve two free nights of lodging in the United Kingdom in May. I realize you get more bang for the buck if you use miles for a flight, but after using Alaksa Airlines for multiple trips from August 2024- August 2025, I don't think that will be the case in the next few years so getting anything for the miles we had seemed to be the wisest course of action. I've begun the lengthy process of planning out the nitty gritty details for the trip. I bought tickets for our flight from Scotland to Northern Ireland, and I've booked our lodging for eight out of fifteen nights so far. I'm trying not to think about how much I paid for one night at the Holiday Inn at the Glasgow Airport! Getting two other nights for free helps to compensate for that expensive night. I did book two inexpensive nights (about £100 total each night including the hefty VAT). 

11. Our tradition we started a few years ago of having dates with the kids has mostly fallen by the wayside. Oliver is the only one who still requests to have dates with Paul or I. Paul took him to see the new Tron movie on Tuesday night. Tickets are 50% off at that theatre on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and I had a gift card, so he paid less than $5 total for their tickets. Now the popcorn and soda they shared were another story although they did use a $10 off coupon to bring down the price of that also. It was the first time any of us had been in a movie theatre this year, so it was a special treat. 

12. We really enjoyed our last audiobook - Boys without Names by Kashmira Sheth, and I am quite certain that will be true for the one we started today, Ms. Pennypickle's Puzzle Quest because we have loved many books by Chris Grabenstein in the past. 

13. We dog sat Cooper for eight days recently. At one point we were concerned about how he was doing physically, but thankfully he bounced back the last day he was with us. 

14. I can go months without watching anything on tv, but Paul and I watched a good movie recently on Prime called Last Breath. Movies based on true stories are typically my favorite type of movie. 

Driver's License!

Nadia got her first learner's permit on June 25, 2024. She logged her required 65 hours of driving experience by the end of 2024 but decided to wait on getting her license. In August she renewed her learner's permit and asked us to teach her how to parallel park. Paul took primary responsibility for that. She had no trouble learning that skill. On September 4, Nadia took her first driving test. It took multiple attempts over the last few weeks, but she passed with flying colors today! Woohoo! She and I celebrated with a stop at Rita's before I dropped her off at Camp Susque. I added her to our insurance policy this evening. Praying that all will go smoothly as she begins driving without a parent sitting next to her. For starters, we will be letting her drive to work and take herself and her brothers to art classes on Mondays/Thursdays at our church. Ian will be old enough to get his learner's permit in December. Our kids are growing up way too fast! This means that we've now checked off all 119 things listed on our 2025 first time experiences "bucket list." I know it's not Thursday, but in addition to Nadia succeeding today with passing her driving test, here are some things I'm thankful for:

1. On September 15 I walked around the church property while the kids were in art class. I was stunned to see a New Hampshire license plate on one of the vehicles near where we were parked! I'm down to one more license plate to find over the next 3.5 months - Wyoming. 

2. On September 12 Cheri and our family drove down to Camp Hill. First, we took advantage of a coupon Dairy Queen had for small blizzards that only cost 85 cents (they're usually over $5). An hour later we met Jenna at Panera for dinner. Toby also joined us for a few minutes. The primary reason we had driven down was to attend a Stephen Curtis Chapman concert. The very first Christian contemporary concert that Cheri had attended in the 80s was Stephen Curtis Chapman. In the first part of the concert, he sang the entire Speechless album (from 1999). In addition to a drummer, pianist, and guitarists, he had a string quartet accompanying him. After the intermission he sang some other songs from other albums. Nadia thinks Speechless is his best album. It was challenging for me to stay up past 11:00 pm, especially as I had been sick that week, but a good time was had by all. 

3. Oliver, Paul, and I enjoyed attending a social our Sunday School class hosted on September 13 at church. We ate lots of delicious food (potluck) and played some games to help us get to know each other better. I brought white chicken chili, and three women the next day asked me for the recipe.

4. Our first day of co-op went well on September 16. I used the dining room plus living room together for government (9:00-9:45) and drama (11:15-12:00). We brought up extra chairs for both rooms. 18 out of 19 kids were in attendance that day. I used the family room for personal finance. Paul did part of the physics lab outdoors and part of it in the dining room. He did two experiments about relative velocity and Newton's first law. Twelve of the kids stayed for lunch and games. Nadia and Ben picked what games the group would play, and the kids split into two groups for the game time. Faith stayed at our house until 10:00 pm. Xandir stayed with us until Wednesday afternoon.

5. Ian, Oliver, and Xandir enjoyed roller skating at the homeschool party on September 17. Lucy, Sincere, and Andrew were also there. 

6. On September 18 we saw a performance of A Tale of Two Cities in Lititz put on by Servant Stage. This organization provides the concessions and tickets to the shows as "pay what you wish." They even had a live orchestra! None of us had seen this musical before, and Ian is reading that book this marking period after he finishes Frankenstein. We were very impressed with the quality of the vocalists. I had originally gotten us matinee tickets for the last Saturday in September, but none of the matinee performances fit with Nadia's schedule. We didn't get home until almost midnight, which is far from ideal, but Paul graciously drove which helped. I didn't have Nadia read that book during high school. I think the only thing she read by Charles Dickens was Oliver Twist; this was another reason I thought it was good for her to attend the musical as this way she at least knows the plot of the story. 

7. Speaking of Nadia's schedule, she attended an 18th birthday party for a fellow counselor from Camp Susque. She and some other girls stayed in a cabin from September 19-21. I'm grateful for the friends she has made through being on staff at Camp Susque.

8. Paul and I had our first lesson of intermediate East Coast swing dancing this evening. We were pleasantly surprised to see a couple from our Sunday School class also in the class! They live close to us and suggested we carpool in the future. I said let's call it a double date! :) 

9. Last week Ian got behind again, which made last weekend very intense as far as getting his work done. Thankfully, he's back on track and this weekend will be much more relaxed for Ian and also me. 

10. Right now, everything is a "go" for Aunt Janet to have her knee replacement on October 1. This is an answer to prayer because her surgery was postponed once (due to COVID), and we're hoping she will visit us in February, and that was not going to be possible if her surgery was postponed again. We're continuing to pray that all will go well with her surgery. 

11. When Paul and I were in England in 2002, we saw two theatrical performances - one of Shakespeare at a theatre in the round and also the musical Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. Our kids would not want to see anything by Shakespeare, but I was hoping to take them to see Chitty Chitty. That doesn't look possible, but the good news is that in addition to Paddington (a brand-new musical which is debuting in November), it looks like we can see Phantom of the Opera, which is one of my favorite musicals and one I had hoped to take them to. Previously, they had said the show would end in London in March 2026, but they recently extended it several more months, which means we can see it in May, Lord willing!!

Thankful Thursday

 

1. Earlier this week I was sneezing and had some congestion and chalked it up to allergies. On Wednesday I realized it was actually a cold. Thankfully, I've been healthy for several months straight, and I'm also grateful that the worst of the bug seems to be over. Yesterday I didn't help at Bible quizzing, but today I was able to resume my normal activities without taking a nap. If you know me well, I am NOT a napper. I can go years without taking a nap, but I fell asleep in the family room prior to bedtime on both Tuesday and Wednesday, which shows I was not feeling well.  

2. Everything went smoothly while we watched Cooper from August 28- September 2. I'm very thankful that we can swap dog sitting with the Seiberts. 

3. Nadia enjoyed working at Camp Susque last weekend. She was helping in the kitchen for a retreat being held at the camp. Shortly after she got home on Saturday, she then went to work for two hours at the kennel. She's doing a great job of saving up money towards her first car.

4. Ian had a rough start with his college classes this semester. He is learning to read instructions more clearly and that he can't wait until the last minute to get his assignments done. He submitted two assignments late on September 1. Thankfully, since then he has submitted everything on time or early. For now, I'm helping him come up with a plan as to how to complete everything at a reasonable pace (not all at the last minute). In time, I'm hoping he will take over that responsibility. He's taking two classes, and he currently has a 100% in one of the classes, and he has plenty of time to pull his grade up in the other class. Yesterday, he had ALL of his work done (homeschool, college, and piano) for the day completed by 4:00 pm, which was wonderful. 

5. I've been increasing my expectations for Oliver this year considering he's in seventh grade. He had his first science test this week. I made it an open book test for him, and I'm not actually going to keep track of his grades, but I want to give him an idea what it's like to take tests before he's in ninth grade when I do have to give him a grade. I also have him completing a literature guide for what he's reading (Prince Caspian and Voyage of the Dawn Treader so far) and requiring him to complete the weekly writing assignments (300-500 words each) for government that Nadia and Ian are also completing although I'm not grading his. I'm also working with him more to study I and II Corinthians for Bible quizzing. The science notebook also takes a lot more time for him to complete than the elementary level notebooks, but he's adjusting. So far, so good.

6. Nadia was invited to attend an overnight birthday party that will be happening next weekend. In April I had purchased 3 tickets for an Anne Wilson/Jordan Feliz concert at the Bloomsburg Fair. Cheri and I were planning to attend, but Nadia is the one who really likes Anne Wilson. When she no longer wanted to attend the concert, we decided to try to sell the tickets. At first it seemed like I couldn't even give them away, but thankfully eventually someone bought them from me for almost exactly the amount I paid. 

7. Ian has kept up in government and physics, but he also got behind in literature and math. I knew that getting caught up in the college classes was the first priority. On Sunday, I had him start getting caught up in his homeschool assignments. In math, the plan was for him to complete part of Saxon's Advanced Mathematics textbook this year. There were two other times in the last 13 years that I chose one math curriculum for a child and then switched gears part way through the school year. Years ago, I had planned for Nadia to use Saxon and switched to Teaching Textbooks. That switch didn't represent a waste of money because I had borrowed the Saxon text from my sister. Last year, I planned for Ian to use Art of Problem Solving for Geometry, but he ended up using Teaching Textbooks. This year I thought Ian would be using Saxon. The Christian schools where I taught had used Saxon math. This hasn't been working for him, but I was determined not to resort back to Teaching Textbooks as I feel it wouldn't challenge Ian. This week I made the decision to sign him up for Precalculus through Arizona State University. It only costs $25. Nadia is taking College Algebra the same way. In her case, if she does well, I'll pay $400 for the 3 credits so she will be eligible to take Calculus at Liberty next year. In Ian's case, I don't see any reason to pay for the credits, but we'll have up to one year after he finishes the course to make that decision. Hopefully this will be a good fit for him this year. I don't like wasting money on curriculum that we never use, but it's much worse to have a situation that's frustrating for both parents plus Ian for months on end. I'm thankful ASU makes their courses available for such a small amount of money.

8. Paul and I have signed up for another ballroom dancing class! We're planning to take eight intermediate swing lessons on Friday nights this fall. 

9. I had been told that the kids were signed up for art class at MCS on Mondays and Thursdays at 1:20. The last two weeks they had art on Thursdays. When we showed up this week on Monday, they were told there isn't an art class at 1:20 on Mondays. It turns out the schedule changed last week, and they forgot to tell us. To make matters worse, the kids hung out with me in the car until the next period of school only to find out they were just having a study hall in art. Oi vey. That was a big waste of time. The silver lining is that having art at 2:05 on Mondays will actually be better for us than at 1:20. This Monday Nadia worked from 7:30-11:30 am and the boys had an orthodontist appointment at 10:30. We hadn't been able to get the subjects we do together done before art, but this will be more possible on a Monday that Nadia works, if art is at 2:05. 

10. Ian's piano lessons are on Fridays this school year, but when I found out on Monday that Ian was scheduled to play the keyboard with the youth worship team on Wednesday evening, his teacher offered to move his lesson to Tuesday so she could help him go over the songs before Wednesday night. We appreciate her flexibility and assistance, and I'm grateful Ian has been signed up to play the keyboard on Wednesday night every other week during this school year. Speaking of piano, sometime this summer Ian started being more careful when he practices. What a difference this has made! His teacher and I are both thrilled with this change. I'm also thankful that he's playing music that is more appealing for the rest of the family to listen to. 

Thankful Thursday

 1. Oliver had his physical on Friday. He was grateful he didn't need to get any shots. I am very grateful that he hadn't been to the doctor since his physical last year. At the doctor's office he weighed 95 pounds (39th percentile) and was 5 ft. 4.5 inches tall. He had gained 11 pounds and grown 2.5 inches in the last year. His height is at the 83rd percentile, and his BMI is at the 11th percentile, which is an improvement as some years his BMI was around the 5th percentile which put him close to being labeled underweight. When Nadia turned thirteen, she was 5 ft. 1.25 inches tall, and Ian was 59.5 inches and 76 lbs. when he turned 13. So, Oliver weighs about 20 pounds more than Ian did at this age, and he's also 5 inches taller than his brother was. At the moment, Ian is still taller than Oliver, but I think Ian's days are numbered as to being the tallest child in our family.

2. The weather has been so nice lately! The highs have been in the 70's, and it hasn't been humid. That's my kind of weather! Paul and I usually walk together twice a day with Milo. Sometimes Oliver joins us on rollerblades for our second walk of the day.

3. I'm grateful to be able to continue to homeschool our kids. Yesterday we took our first day of school pictures one day late because it had been raining on Tuesday evening. We also got ice cream at Becky's to celebrate the start of a new school year.

4. Nadia wanted to get some clothes at the thrift store, so we went there yesterday. Last week she renewed her learner's permit which had expired in June. She drove a lot from September through December last year, but she had barely driven at all in 2025. She was the driver for our errands yesterday. We used a Pizza Hut gift card Paul had gotten through his company credit card previously to get stuffed crust pizza, which is something Nadia really loves. 

5. Six months ago, the dentist thought an x-ray showed I had a cavity in a tooth. He decided to wait six months. On Tuesday an x-ray of just that tooth showed zero sign of decay. Woohoo! 

6. Yesterday was Oliver's spiritual birthday. I got him an Adventures in Odyssey book, and we picked up six donuts last night at Dunkin for our family to enjoy today. 

7. I never know what I'll find when I shop at Surplus Outlet. On Saturday I found they were selling bags of Sun Chips for $1.47 (the size that is typically $4-5 each). I shocked the kids by buying 24 bags. I figured I'd likely never see them at that price again. We all like them, and they are healthier than most chips. I've never bought that many bags of chips at one time before, but I don't regret the purchase.

8. I treated Tab to lunch on Friday as a belated birthday lunch. She suggested eating at a restaurant I had never been to before. The food was tasty, but more importantly I enjoyed time with my friend. 

9. The kids have their first art class for the year at MCS this afternoon. I'm thankful the kids can take art there and participate in their musical. 

10. We have nineteen kids signed up for co-op this fall. I used a Lowe's gift card that I had intended to use toward our new refrigerator to pay for four folding chairs. One of the new moms teaches art for a fee elsewhere. She has agreed to teach art in our co-op for free in the spring as long as the supplies are provided. Art is definitely not my forte, so I'm grateful for this assistance.

11. For a few months I've been monitoring the price of airfare to the United Kingdom. On Tuesday evening I learned of a nonstop, roundtrip flight from Newark to Dublin for less than $350 each. Including taxes and fees, I ended up paying $361 per person for nonstop, roundtrip flights in May. Yahoo! I've been working on a two-week itinerary that includes visiting Northern Ireland, Scotland, England, Wales, and Ireland. Nadia wants us to add in a day trip to Paris so that will likely happen. It will be the third continent for the kids! Paul and I have been to Paris and England, but we haven't been to Ireland, Wales, Scotland, or Northern Ireland. I think everything we see in Paris will be a repeat for Paul and I, but only some of what we do in England will be a repeat for us. 

The last first day of homeschool for Nadia!

 This is my thirteenth year of homeschooling, and it's my last one in which I have three students. I've had a tradition of taking a picture of the kids at the start of each school year. Below you'll find a picture of Nadia from each of the past years of school. I also have the kids draw a self-portrait every year and write goals for the year. Last year we began the tradition of getting ice cream at Becky's after taking our first day of school pictures. We indented to continue that tradition yesterday, but it started raining a little before we had dinner. Oliver, Paul, and I were walking (in Oliver's case rollerblading) home when we got caught in the rain. Due to the rain last night, we took our annual pictures this evening and got our ice cream afterwards. In this post you'll also find the video I made about our trip to Hawaii (above), and Oliver's 13th birthday video (at the end of the post). I usually make 5-6 videos a year. I've made four so far this year, and I'm planning on making one in the near future that commemorates our trips to all fifty states and then one more in December for Ian's 16th birthday.

Our local school district went back to school last week. The Christian school at our church had their first day of school today. Due to just coming back from Hawaii, I didn't want to start at the same time as our school district although we've done that many times in the past. Many years we've had school on Labor Day, but I decided to ease us back into the school year by having two four-day school weeks the first two weeks of school. So, I decided we'd start on Tuesday this week and take Labor Day off next week. The first two days of school went fairly smoothly. Oliver was overwhelmed by the jump in difficulty from the elementary level science textbook which he used in 6th grade to the Physical Science textbook he's using this year. Yesterday I decided to return an audiobook I had purchased with a credit that we hadn't listened to yet with Audible and instead used the credit to get an audiobook of his textbook so that he could listen to it while he reads it simultaneously. I have to say he did a nice job in the science notebook yesterday and today. Math didn't go smoothly for Ian yesterday. I'm attempting to have him switch to Saxon. He did well with Beast Academy through 5th grade, and then he's been using Teaching Textbooks which I feel is too easy for him, and he thought AOP was too challenging last year when I attempted to have him use that for geometry. Hopefully it will work for him to use this Advanced Mathematics book by Saxon this year. Oliver is using Teaching Textbooks, and Nadia is taking College Algebra through ASU. I'll also do Life of Fred with all three kids, but we haven't started Life of Fred yet this year.

Nadia in August 2013 (Kindergarten)

Nadia at the start of first grade

2nd grade

3rd grade

4th grade

5th grade

7th grade

8th grade

9th grade

Home Sweet Home

Hawaii is a very beautiful place, but it's quite an ordeal getting there. It took us a little more time to get to Hawaii than it did for Paul and I to travel to China in 2006. We passed through twelve time zones on that trip, so the jet lag wasn't *as* brutal on this trip as it was *only* six time zones away. We are very thankful to be at home again, and as much as Milo loves the Seiberts, he's also very, very glad to be reunited with us. In light of all the traveling we did, I determined not to drive anywhere today except to take Nadia to work. She's planning to get her license next month, so my days of driving her to work will be coming to an end in the very near future.

Tonight, I'm grateful for:

1. The free coffee farm tour we were able to schedule at the last minute when something else fell through last Friday morning. 

2. For all the fish we were able to see when we snorkeled on Friday in Honaunau Bay and Kahalu'u Beach Park. 

3. Although we didn't get to see any monk seals, we saw many, many sea turtles on the trip - some in the water and some on land. 

4. We ate some VERY delicious island cream on Maui. Yum! We also were finally able to try shave ice once. We went all out and got the two possible additions - ice cream and a snow cap on top.

5. One of the kids' most favorite beaches from our trip was Napili Bay Beach on Maui. 

6. One of Paul's top three meals on the trip was the beef brisket sandwich he had at Mama's Ribs on Maui.

My view as I looked up from where I was lying down at the beach on Maui

7. The volcano on Maui was one of my top experiences from the trip. The views were breathtaking from 10,000 feet elevation. 

8. Everything went smoothly with our two flights from Maui to DC, and Joe picked us up from the airport.

9. We enjoyed having some time with the Towfighis. When we arrived before our flight to Hawaii, everyone was there except for Jenna and Joe. When we returned, everyone was there except for Andrew; so over the course of the two trips we saw all eleven members of their family plus my dad. 

10. Westyn mowed our lawn once and took out our recycling once while we were gone, Cooper gave Lily food and water and watered my plants, and the Seiberts took care of Milo. It takes a village to go on vacation, ha ha! I'm thankful for all their help. 

11. Nadia has been signed up to work in the kitchen at Camp Susque when they are hosting some retreats in September and October. She could have worked there over Labor Day weekend, but she had to decline that retreat because she's already scheduled to work at the kennel in the evening on August 31. I'm thankful that she has two jobs that she enjoys. Her favorite job is Camp Susque, but I think working with animals is better for her resume. 

12. I didn't get much sleep for three consecutive nights, but last night I got 9.5 hours of sleep! I almost never sleep in until 7:00 am, but I slept until about 7:45! Nadia and Ian didn't wake up until after 11:00 am, and Paul slept until 10:00 am. This is a result of jet lag. I think my body is making the six hour transition, for which I'm grateful. I felt *much* better today than I did yesterday. 

Silversword plant we admired at the top of Haleakala 

13. I had a request from another mom for her two girls to join our co-op. That will probably put us at 19 kids if I say yes. If we didn't meet in our home, I wouldn't have to think about it. My kids are very excited about co-op resuming in a little less than a month.

14. We all were healthy during our trip. Two of the Towfighis tested positive for strep throat while we were with them. We're hoping we didn't catch it from them.

15. We visited six National Park sites on this trip. As of August 18, we've been to 175 National Park sites, of which 30 of those were "National Parks." Nadia and Ian have each earned 231 Junior Ranger badges, and Oliver has earned 219 so far.

Farewell, Hawaii

On Monday morning we left our Airbnb and started our drive to the Haleakala National Park. On the way there we stopped at the Komoda Bakery in Makawao. We did a few small hikes, the kids earned Junior Ranger badges, and we enjoyed many amazing views as we drove to the summit (10,023 feet elevation). We were looking down at the clouds! The road was filled with many sharp turns. The kids and I felt like we were on an amusement park ride on the way down. The two volcanos (one on Hawaii and this one on Maui) were two of my favorite experiences from the trip. We weren't supposed to board our flight to San Diego until after 10:00 pm. We passed some of the time by watching sea turtles at three different beaches on the north shore (not too far from the airport). At this first beach there were 22 sea turtles on the beach, there were 3 at the second, and there were 17 at the third. At each beach we also saw sea turtles in the water, but it was impossible to count those. We also had pizza at the Flatbread Company. It was very tasty, but it was very expensive. Still, it was cheaper than ordering five entrees elsewhere. The pizzas were too small for one large to feed five people. Oliver and I didn't want to get just a cheese pizza. We chose Mopsy's Kalua Pork which included pork, a mango BBQ sauce, red onions, Maui pineapple, goat cheese, parmesan, and mozzarella. Paul only had the regular cheese pizza, but the rest of us had some of the pork one. 

We had a glitch with using our TSA Precheck because Alaska Airlines required us to book our tickets as three different reservations. Since Oliver was 12 when we flew here, he was able to go with us through TSA Precheck, but now that he's thirteen they wouldn't permit that. I don't plan to buy tickets through Alaska Airlines again. Our first flight took us from Maui to San Diego. We all slept a little bit on the flight. Thankfully, the food prices were more reasonable in this airport than they are in the Seattle airport. I bought five breakfast sandwiches at a Jack in the Box near our gate. When we shopped for groceries on Maui, I had purchased a cheese Danish for us to share and also some Club and Cheddar cracker sandwiches. This will constitute our "lunch" on the second flight to DC. We plan to spend the night at Yvonne's house and drive back to our home and Milo tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully, it won't take us too long to adjust to the six-hour time change. We will stop hearing the words Aloha and Mahalo that we've heard so many times over the last two weeks! Thankfully, we were all healthy during our trip, and the weather was nice. We had almost no rain. The only time rain impacted our plans was part of the day that we were hiking at the Volcano National Park on Hawaii.  I'm thankful we have been able to visit all fifty states! As beautiful as Hawaii was, I feel the same as I did when we left Alaska. I loved our time there but don't anticipate Paul and I will ever return to either state. I am looking forward to sleeping in my own bed tomorrow night and snuggling with Milo. Nadia's Astronomy class began yesterday through Liberty, and Ian's two classes through Cedarville begin tomorrow. Summer is almost done. It's been a good one!

Hawaiian goose "Nene" at the volcano

Maui

 

When planning the trip to Hawaii, I had to decide which islands we'd visit, and how many days we'd spend on each one. One of the reasons we are spending the shortest amount of time on Maui compared to the other two islands we visited is because it is definitely more expensive. If we had another day here, I would have included the famous Road to Hana in our itinerary. In the end I only included beaches and Haleakala National Park (another volcano). On Friday evening while we were at a beach on Hawaii, I got a message saying that the vehicle we were going to be renting through Turo wasn't available after all due to mechanical difficulties. When I had searched months ago, the prices through Turo were better than through a rental car agency. At the last minute, Priceline offered me a better price than Turo, but as I had used $269 in gift cards to rent the vehicle through Turo, I went with the worse deal and selected another vehicle through Turo. The lesson I have learned here is that it's better to take a statement credit than to redeem for gift cards the majority of the time. If I had booked the van through Priceline, I would have felt obligated to use Turo in Europe in May, and that would have meant we would need to fly into London. Using those gift cards means I can be more flexible in picking the best flight deal for our next trip as we might fly into Dublin or some other city instead. I could have saved money by picking a vehicle located 1 mile away from the airport, but I remembered how much we did not like walking with our luggage to and from the airport on Oahu. Our Turo pick-up and drop-off was much easier on Hawaii as it took place in the airport parking lot. So, I paid a little more so that we could do the same on Maui. Our flight to Maui was really, really short. Only a few minutes passed after we reached our cruising altitude before it was time to start the descent. We spent more time in the airplane on the tarmac than in the air as it took a while for us to be able to deplane in Maui.

Kona Sea Salt Farm

Our first stop was at the Island Cream Co. for ice cream. I had read they had the best ice cream in all of Hawaii. They have more than 150 different flavors, and they make 36 flavors each day. Their island cream is a cross between gelato and ice cream. It was not cheap, but it was very, very tasty. I tasted a sample of ube (a purple sweet potato that is popular in Hawaii). Ube was good, but I chose lilikoi and pineapple cream for my two scoops. If we were staying longer on Maui, I felt quite confident we would have visited Island Cream Co. more than once. Most of the time we saved money by buying ice cream at a grocery store on this vacation. Our second stop was Kahekili Beach. The beaches on Hawaii sometimes didn't have any sand. There are some beaches on Maui that are rocky (no sand), but the beaches we went to had sand, which the kids were happy to see. After swimming and snorkeling there, we got our dinner at Round Table Pizza. Usually, getting pizza is a way to save money on vacation, but that is not always true in Hawaii. We went to three different pizza places on this trip, and only one of them had a 16-inch pizza, and the cost of one pizza (even though it was much smaller) was FAR more than what we pay for a pizza in Pennsylvania. To compensate for the smaller size of the pizza, sometimes I purchased an order of garlic knots or breadsticks. Paul liked the first pizza place the best - Black Rock Pizza in Kona. After dinner, we spent some time at Black Rock Beach. Paul and I watched the cliff diving ceremony. Our last stop before we checked into our Airbnb was to get some groceries for breakfast and lunch. Our unit is on the 5th floor. We have two bedrooms and two bathrooms. Nadia is sleeping on the futon in the living room. There is an outdoor pool, but we didn't use it. This unit didn't include beach chairs, umbrellas, etc. like the Airbnb's on the other islands, but it did have a washer and dryer that we could use for free. It was nice to be able to do all our laundry so we can go back with clean clothes in our suitcases. I also appreciated the iron and ironing board so I could iron Nadia's dress before our family photo shoot.

On Sunday morning we walked to the beach that is five minutes from our Airbnb for photos. The last time we had a nice family photo shoot was in Myrtle Beach in 2019. The pictures this time aren't as good as the ones in 2019. First of all, Oliver seems to have lost the ability to smile. Secondly, Nadia and I accidentally ended up standing next to each other, which was not what I had in mind given the colors of our outfits, but there have been years that passed without us having taken even one single picture that included all five of us, so at least that is not the case this year. I have something to use for our Christmas card, ha ha! A couple from Canada who were on the beach, helped us by taking some of the photos. When we first arrived at the beach there was a rainbow over the water. It was SO beautiful, but my camera was acting up (scary!) and wouldn't work at first. Thankfully it started working again eventually, but the rainbow was gone by then. 

After our photo shoot, we got our bathing suits on and spent the day at the beach. Our first stop was Kapalua Beach. We spent about 90 minutes at that beach before walking to Napili Beach. If I had paid for all day parking instead of 3 hours of parking, I think we would have stayed there the rest of the day as the kids thought it was the best beach. We had trouble locating the other beach I had planned for us to try, so we ended up going to D.T. Fleming Beach which was a very good beach but not *quite* as good in the kids' opinion. Also, the parking at D.T. Fleming is much more expensive. If you go to Maui, we highly recommend the beach near the Napili Kai Beach Resort! When we were on Hawaii, we attempted to have shave ice, but the place I had chosen happened to be closed the day we went there (they had put a post-it note on the window saying they were closed that day). I had read so much about shave ice while planning this trip that I was determined that we wouldn't leave the state before we tried some. I found one only 1/2 mile from the D.T. Fleming Beach. This was even more expensive than our island cream treat. Gasp! But we had to try it once. We each tried different flavors of shave ice. Oliver had guava, passion fruit, and mango in his. The kids all picked vanilla for the ice cream portion of the treat. I picked haupia as I wanted to try something new. It definitely was better than a snow cone, but if I'm spending that much money, I'd rather have ice cream or a smoothie. I'm glad we tried it once though. It's challenging to find a place to eat on Maui that doesn't cost a fortune. At the Burger Shack on the beach this afternoon I saw that a burger cost $32! Yikes! We paid a lot less than that for our meals that we got at Mama's Ribs and Rotisserie.

Tomorrow, we plan to visit the Haleakala Volcano and some beaches that are closer to the airport before we begin our flight back home. Red eye flights are not exactly my favorite, and I'm also not keen on adjusting to a six-hour time difference, but I'm very, very grateful we could have this once in a lifetime trip to Hawaii. Nadia, Paul, and Ian said their favorite island of the three we visited was Hawaii (Big Island). Oliver said he liked them all equally. If we were to go on another beach vacation, we'd probably go to the Caribbean, but I'm so glad we were able to visit our 50th state! Nadia's astronomy class through Liberty University begins tomorrow, and Ian's two classes through Cedarville begin on Wednesday. Summer is quickly drawing to a close. 

The island in the background is Molokai

Coffee and more

When planning a vacation there are umpteen decisions to make regarding where to spend the night, what to see and do, where to eat, and where to get a vehicle. Some activities that I originally thought to include in this trip were eliminated due to the fact that we haven't made any money this year. These included going to a luau, going on a snorkeling trip near the Captain Cook memorial, and visiting the pineapple farm on Maui. One tour I had booked (abalone farm tour) was cancelled due to the company going out of business, and another was impossible (octopus farm) because they are temporarily closed due to moving to a new location. At one point I considered a beekeeping tour on this island, but I eliminated that because that's something we can do on the mainland. I wanted to stick to tours that are unique to this climate. Oliver wishes I had included a tea farm (on the Hilo side as there wouldn't be enough rain on this side to grow tea), and Nadia wishes I had included a macadamia nut farm tour (which surprised me because she and Ian don't eat tree nuts). I definitely could have included the macadamia nut farm tour, and that is something strongly associated with this island. The farm tours I selected were coffee, chocolate, vanilla, sea horse, and sea salt. The sea horse farm was the most expensive, and the coffee farm was the cheapest to visit.

Nadia wanted to shop at a t-shirt store near our hotel, but when we went there after dinner one evening, they were closed. She and I ventured out for a coffee/shopping trip yesterday morning around 9:00 am. I bought myself one t-shirt. She bought herself one t-shirt and one sweatshirt. I bought her a Kona coffee latte. Then the five of us left the hotel and began to drive south of Kona. I had planned for us to visit the Kona Coffee Living History Farm, but when we arrived there yesterday, we found out that they were closed due to August 15 being the holiday when they celebrate the fact that Hawaii was admitted to the Union (August 21, 1959). Thankfully, Greenwell Farms was less than 2 miles away, and they give free tours and free samples. When we pay for a tour of a farm, I don't tip the tour guide, but I did tip that tour guide since the tour was free. The tour was excellent. It mostly focused on coffee, but she did tell us a little about other things growing on the farm (mangos, white pineapple, lychee, apple bananas, vanilla, cacao, etc.). We were able to eat some lychee fruit. Yum! This family has been farming coffee for 173 years at this location. At a grocery store in Maui the next day, I bought a few apple bananas. When I'm buying a regular banana, I like to buy them when they are still partially green. The tour guide had said that apple bananas are much firmer, and that you need to buy ones that are yellow with some brown spots. She was correct! I love the apple bananas!!

Our second stop was at the oldest restaurant on the island. The Manago hotel and restaurant have been in operation since 1917. Our third stop was *supposed* to be St. Benedict Church (aka the "Painted Church"), but when we arrived, we found out it's closed for a few weeks due to construction. So, our third stop was actually Pu'uhonua O Honaunau National Historical Park. The kids each earned a junior ranger badge. The kids also snorkeled in Honaunau Bay (aka "two step") which is right beside the NPS site. On our way back toward Kona we also snorkeled at Kahalu'u Beach Park. It was a beach without any sand, but there were SO many different fish to be seen in the water if you snorkeled. We had dinner in Kona right along the harbor. Although it was still inexpensive by Hawaii standards, it was definitely our most expensive meal on the trip so far. We had a beautiful view, but the food wasn't anything to write home about, especially considering how much we paid. Some days the kids went to the swimming pool at our hotel after dinner, and other nights they used the gym. Last night they chose the gym. 

Coffee cherries (picked when they are dark red) - with coffee bean inside

This morning, we had our final breakfast the Holiday Inn. In general, the breakfast was very similar to what is served at Holiday Inns on the mainland, but there were some differences. The first couple of mornings they served sausage as the meat option. At most Holiday Inns, they usually serve either bacon or sausage. At this Holiday Inn, they served fried chicken as the meat option one morning, spam the next morning, and I couldn't tell what the meat was this morning. After breakfast, we checked out, loaded up the van, and drove to the Kona Sea Salt Farm which is located very close to the airport. We had a guided tour which ended with a tasting session. They gave us cucumbers, tomatoes, and pineapples to use to taste a variety of types of sea salt. Although I enjoy all three of those foods, I found the only one I liked with salt was the tomato. The farm is located right along the harbor, and the tour guide said monk seals can be seen along the trail. Paul, Nadia, and I walked along the trail after the tour, but alas we didn't see any monk seals on the island all week despite the fact we saw many signs mentioning their presence at various beaches. The farm was located very close to the Kona airport, but we had to drive back to Kona for a car wash and to vacuum out the vehicle we rented through Turo before we dropped it off at the airport. We were flying from Kona to Maui. More about that tomorrow! Although we saw license plates from other states on Oahu, every single license plate I saw on Hawaii was from Hawaii. Paul appreciated that the traffic was much less stressful on Hawaii than it was on Oahu. Parking could still be problematic at times, but we were grateful every time we found a parking spot at the beach or whatever place we were visiting.