Many of our annual Christmas traditions won't be taking place this year. We're not going to see a candy cane demonstration at Purity Candy, not going to make a hand blown glass ornament in Corning or attend the Rockwell Museum, not going to get together with any of my relatives because they all live outside the state of Pennsylvania, not going to attend the Christmas program at the large church in Camp Hill, not going to be singing Christmas carols at the Warrior Run Manor, etc. The kids have always done their shopping for Christmas gifts for their family at AWANA. Since that won't be happening, I guess they won't be giving gifts to anyone unless they make them, and my kids have never really made gifts before. We have usually baked pumpkin bread or Christmas cookies and given them to the kids' Sunday School teachers, choir directors, AWANA leaders, etc. Since they aren't in any choirs or AWANA right now due to COVID-19, I'm not planning on doing that either, but we ARE doing some baking this weekend for others. There is a woman in Sunbury who organizes a free Thanksgiving meal for 1,000+ people each year. She can't do it "as usual" due to COVID-19, but she's going to be distributing bagged meals this year instead. We've volunteered to make baked goods (cookies and brownies) and put them in baggies for some of the lunches. We're baking for others for Thanksgiving this year instead of Christmas. We're planning to make shortbread cookies, brownies, and thumbprint cookies. Speaking of baking, I was planning to make saffron buns next month for our celebration of the Swedish holiday - St. Lucia Day. Now I'm not so sure. Did you know that saffron is the most expensive spice? I'm trying to decide if it's worth it or not. I can get the spice more cheaply through Amazon than Walmart or Wegman's, but I'm not sure if I want to spend more than $10 on 2 grams of a spice for a bread recipe.
We started trying to have children in May 2002. After pursuing fertility treatments, domestic, and international adoption, our daughter Nadia Renee was born on 6-24-08 (at 36w4d). IVF #2 resulted in Ian Alexander, who was born on 12-12-09 (at 34w3d). Oliver Elliot (IVF #3) was born on 8-7-12 (at 31w6d)! Three other pregnancies (in 2005, 2007, and 2013) ended in miscarriage. Our family is complete! We are so thankful for our three miracles!
Friday, November 20, 2020
Among Us
Thursday, November 19, 2020
Last Hurrah
Tuesday, November 17, 2020
Thankful Tuesday
1. Nadia was able to participate in a Bible quizzing event at our church for 7 hours on Saturday, and then she went home with one of the girls on her team for an impromptu sleepover. It's the second time this year she's spent the night at a friend's house, and she's had friends over for a sleepover at our house at least five times this year. I'm thankful she's developed friendships at church - primarily through Bible quizzing.
2. I enjoyed teaching the 1st-5th grade boy's class at church on Sunday. We were studying the third and fourth commandments.
3. The boys and I enjoyed the delicious Thanksgiving dinner at Pastor Ken's house on Sunday evening. That meal is usually my favorite meal of the year - baked pineapple casserole, baked corn casserole, pumpkin roll, and Watergate salad are foods that I really, really love and typically only eat at a potluck meal. Oliver's favorite dish that night was no surprise - sweet potatoes. I enjoyed those also! Ian liked the turkey the best.
4. The first few years we had guinea pigs, we didn't have trouble with their water bottle. We have had LOTS of water bottle problems this year with both the rabbits and then the guinea pigs. I bought our fourth water bottle recently, and it seems we have found the "winner" as my mom would have said.
It doesn't drip (which means the bedding will last longer) and doesn't have to be removed from the cage in order to be refilled. As long as Nadia refills it once a day, I think we will be set!
5. Margie received the good news last week that the cancer hadn't spread to her lymph nodes. Unfortunately the pathology report also showed that the surgeon hadn't removed all of the cancer. She's having another surgery this Thursday to remove the rest of the cancer. Six weeks later she'll begin radiation treatments.
6. Something was crossed off the house "to do" list yesterday! Paul had a dermatologist appointment yesterday morning and decided to come home and do some work for the business on his computer rather than going in to the plant. Paul installed a window well cover. I had bought two in April 2019. He installed one. While waiting for the other one to be installed, it had been broken. Paul bought another one in April 2020, and he installed it yesterday. So now the list has five projects on it. I'm very thankful Paul was able to accomplish one task around the house for me! Also, Ken came today and said he thinks he can finish three or four of the other projects on my list in one night next week. WOOHOO! I am so excited!!
7. The kids and I enjoyed the sirniki (cheese pancakes) on Friday. Almost everyone loved the pommes aligot and chicken Kiev that I made on Saturday. Nadia and I really, really liked the peach kuchen I made on Sunday. Now since what I'm planning to make tomorrow includes rice, it probably won't go over very well, but I'm thankful that the majority of new recipes have gone over well so far. I have struggled to find some of the ingredients, but last night it hit me that I could probably find those ingredients at Wegmans. Sure enough, they do! The next time I take the kids to the place where they have trampolines, laser tag, arcades, bowling, etc. I will also pick up a few things at Wegmans.
8. The Steelers are 9-0 for the first time EVER. I actually watched a few minutes of the game on Sunday at Pastor Ken's house, which was the first time I watched any football in 2020.
9. There are about 2,500 people who consider our church to be their church (far fewer than that are official members and far fewer than that attend on a given Sunday especially due to COVID). Over the past eight months we've only had four people come down with COVID-19 within our church, which is less than two tenths of one percent. Up until Sunday I wasn't aware of anyone I personally knew who had COVID-19, but the couple (#3-4) who came down with it recently were in the same Sunday School class I used to attend prior to COVID (the class hasn't resumed meeting yet). I'm thankful that our area hasn't been hit very hard and that a vaccine has been developed. Praying the numbers will start falling around the country and around the globe once the vaccine distribution begins.
10. It took a little over two weeks, but Ian's body has finally adjusted to the time change. This morning was the first time he slept in past 7am since the time changed. He had been getting up between 6:00-6:30 each morning. Oliver slept in until almost 9:00am! I'm not really wanting him to sleep in that late on a regular basis, but to me that is one of the benefits of homeschooling. If he needs that much sleep, he can get that much sleep. Oliver goes to bed at 8:30, and the other two go to bed at 9:30.
Saturday, November 14, 2020
First Fifty
Thursday, November 12, 2020
Thankful Thursday
1. It was wonderful to celebrate Grandma's birthday with her on Saturday and to be able to spend time with Paul's parents, brother, and sister-in-law for several hours for the first time in 2020.
2. The weather lately has been gorgeous - unseasonably warm for November!
3. As yesterday was Veteran's Day, I'm thankful for the men and women who have served in the military in our country in the past and are serving at this time. Freedom isn't free!
4. Some of the recent new recipes have been well received: Pop Pop, Uncle Al, and I enjoyed the apple strudel, the kids enjoyed the cheese soufflé last night, the boys and I have been enjoying the yiaourtopita (lemon pound cake made with Greek yogurt), and the kids and I REALLY liked the paninis we had for lunch on Monday.
5. We enjoyed hiking at Hawk Mountain on Tuesday. In addition to seeing a bald eagle and turkey vultures soaring above us, Ian spotted a walking stick on the ground. The highlight for me was being able to spend about seven hours with my friend whom I don't get to see very often. I think the kids' favorite part of the day was having dinner at Friendly's, which didn't cost us any money thanks to gift cards we had received previously.
6. Margie's surgery went well on Monday, and the surgeon feels very optimistic that the cancer hasn't spread to her lymph nodes. We're praying the pathology report will confirm that this week.
7. Paul gave me permission to hire someone to do some odd jobs around the house. I had asked for permission once or twice a year over the past three years, and the only thing he had said yes to in the past was hiring someone to replace our downstairs toilet. I am SO, SO happy that now I have permission to hire a handyman to replace a small section of drywall behind our refrigerator, replace the downstairs toilet, and some other odd jobs. The one that will please me the most (by far) when it is complete is our shower! Twice this week I got up and wanted to get a shower and had to wait 20-30 minutes for Ian to get out of that bathroom so I could get a shower, which caused problems because Nadia likes to start doing math at 7:00am.. I cannot wait to have our master bathroom shower working again. Paul started that project 4.5 years ago so I've had to wait far longer than I ever thought I would. Hopefully the projects will be completed before the end of 2020! I am very, very thankful that I have permission to hire a handyman!!!
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Hawk Mountain
When Paul and I were dating we hiked at Hawk Mountain on more than one occasion. I also went there with my brother once. I'm not sure how many times I had been there before, but it had been at least 16 years since I had been there. Last week my friend, Cheri, asked if the kids and I would join her at Hawk Mountain this week as she had never been there before. She figured we should take advantage of the unseasonably warm temperatures lately. On Sunday our pastor said that he was thrilled with how short our winter was this year and that we were already moving into spring. Ha ha! I wish that were true. Anyhow it has gotten up into the low 70's the last several days, which is NOT a normal high for November in Pennsylvania. I wish it was! They have people posted at two lookouts from sunrise to sunset from August 15-December 15 keeping a count of the raptors as they migrate south. We mostly saw turkey vultures, but we did get to see one bald eagle soaring above us. From the south lookout to the north lookout we ascended 221 feet (1,521). When Paul and I did the River of Rocks trail many years ago (elevation 700) we saw a large bear coming our direction. I had hoped to go back to Hawk Mountain with my kids and Maurice, but that became impossible 20 months ago. One thing that surprised me was that the VAST majority of people hiking the trails today were wearing masks. I had never seen so many people wearing masks outdoors aside from when we were at an amusement park where we were required to do so. We brought them but hardly wore them at all. It was easy to stay 6 feet away from people so I chose that over wearing a mask. Cheri said she thinks we will be wearing masks until sometime in 2022. I already assumed we'd be wearing masks for a good chunk of 2021, but I admit I was hoping we could ditch them in 2022. Time will tell.
I was surprised to find that they were charging a fee to hike the trail. It cost $25 for the kids and I. We dropped Cheri off at her house, she let her dogs out for a few minutes, and then she joined us at Friendly's for dinner. Paul had told me that Friendly's had filed for bankruptcy. We had been given two gift cards for Friendly's over the last 10 months, so he thought we should use it in the near future in case the restaurant near us was closed. I hadn't seen my friend since we went on a hike together in July with her foster son. Knowing I'd have many hours to chat with her was the main reason I was willing to drive over 3.5 hours today round trip. I was pleasantly surprised on the way home to discover the on ramp to I-80 had been reopened in Danville. I was surprised that Paul hadn't mentioned it because for the months it's been closed his trip home has been at least 10 minutes longer than usual, which when your commute is already 60 minutes long one way, you really feel that extra 10 minutes. When he came home tonight I asked him about it, and he said he didn't realize it had been reopened. I'm sure he'll appreciate being able to use the ramp tomorrow and avoid the detour he's been taking for months.
Sunday, November 8, 2020
Happy birthday, Grandma!
The reason we were allowed to come to their house for the first time in almost 11 months was because we were each wearing a Fresh Air purifier around our necks plus they have a couple larger air purifiers running in their home. They have also purchased one for our home so that they will be able to visit our house, as they haven't been here since Ian's birthday in December 2019. Last year Al and Millie came to our house for Thanksgiving, but this year all ten of us plan to be together at Thanksgiving. Usually we get together for Easter, Mother's Day, and the kids' birthdays, but yesterday was the first family gathering of 2020 as we hadn't gotten together for Easter, Mother's Day, Nadia's birthday, or Oliver's birthday. Even though it was Grandma's birthday yesterday, the boys each came home with one gift. Oliver brought home a Hess truck that Paul's parents gave him for Christmas last year, but it had been accidentally left at their home. Al and Millie bought Ian a plush white guinea pig in memory of Patches, who died in February.
My mom had lost some height (as we all do when we age), but I still don't think Nadia would have been taller than her yet, if she were still alive. At some point she probably would have been taller than my mom, but Nadia has already passed Paul's mom out in height, although it might not be clear in the photo above. As for my nieces and nephews, Susie (age 16) and Andrew (age 15) have both passed me out. Susie has her driver's license! Jenna will be turning 18 later this month. I remember holding Jenna when she was a newborn at my doctoral graduation. Time truly does fly!
Thursday, November 5, 2020
Laser tag, trampolines, and more!
The roller skating rink that is closest to our house has a free skating session the first Wednesday of each month. In the past we could only take advantage of this in the summer because during the school year I'd have choir rehearsal and the kids would have AWANA, but due to COVID-19, there's no choir at my church and AWANA is by Zoom. We opted not to participate in AWANA by Zoom. Nadia is at church from 4:30-8:15 on Wednesdays between her Bible quizzing meeting and then the youth group small groups. Yesterday I still took a 3rd grader, 5th grader, and 7th grader to the roller skating rink, but the seventh grader was a neighbor named Maddox since Nadia was at church. Oliver and I drop her off at 4:30, and Paul picks her up at 8:15 on his way home from work. Just eight months ago Oliver really didn't know how to roller skate. Ian and Oliver's rollerblading abilities have improved dramatically this year. I bought two pairs of roller blades during the pandemic through Facebook. I had purchased another pair in September 2019, which means all three kids now have their own pair of roller blades. Oliver and Ian were really flying around the rink last night, and Oliver was one of the last three left in the limbo contest. The man who won the four corners game gave Oliver his token for a free drink or popcorn.
Today I took the kids to Williamsport as a homeschool group had set up an outing that included one hour of either bowling or arcade games plus one hour to play laser tag and/or jump at the Fly World trampoline park. It cost $10 per child, which seemed like a pretty good price for 2 hours. The kids chose to play arcade games for the first hour, and then they jumped on the trampolines for about 20 minutes before they headed up to play a game of laser tag with five other homeschool kids (two teams of four). Oliver was on the winning (blue) team. Ian and Nadia were on the red team. Nadia had been to Fly World once with Aunt Wendy, Rachel, and Grace so she already had a pair of Fly World socks. The Sky Zone trampoline park in Pittston that we usually visit once a year for free via our PBS station ONLY accepts *their* socks. They wouldn't accept the Fly World socks, but this trampoline park isn't particular as long as you're wearing trampoline socks. Nadia wore her Fly World socks, and the boys wore Sky Zone socks. Although we haven't gone bowling yet in 2020, the kids remember going bowling many times over the years whereas they don't recall having played arcade games before although they've been to Chuck E Cheese in Maryland with the Towfighis and once in Harrisburg for Oliver's third birthday party in 2015. We had our main meal at lunch (potato cheese soufflé) and ate sandwiches and fruit in the van as the event was from 4-6pm, but next time I'll have the kids bring water bottles. They became thirsty, and due to COVID they couldn't use the drinking fountains. I splurged and bought them each a drink. The homeschool group has this outing once a month during the school year. The kids said they want to return next month! The only downside is that Nadia likes to go roller skating at a different skating rink when the Christian radio station hosts an event there once a month, and they also hold it on the first Thursday of the month. I think next month I'll see if any kids in the neighborhood want to come with us for this two hour event.
1. I'm thankful that the kids have adjusted to the time change. Monday morning Ian climbed into bed with us at 5:55am. I had changed several clocks around the house on Sunday, but I had forgotten to change Ian's clock.
2. Speaking of sleep, Paul and I didn't get much sleep on Tuesday night because of the election. Paul stayed up until 2:30am. I went to bed at 9:30, got up at 1:30 to check on how things were going, went back to bed at 2:30 (but it took me a long time to go back to sleep), and then I was up again at 6:15. Thankfully, last night I slept very soundly for nine hours.
3. Nadia and I have been enjoying the key lime pie I made this week. I figured if we are making international recipes this school year, we should also try one that has its origin in the USA, right? I required the boys to have one tiny little taste of it just so they would know what it tasted like, but I never require the kids to eat a dessert they don't like. I also made a soufflé for the first time today. Today's was a potato cheese soufflé. Later I'm going to try another one. Oliver absolutely loved it. Nadia and Ian thought it was "fine" so I imagine it won't be the last time I make it. The recipe called for two cheeses - Morbier and muenster. The grocery store didn't have Morbier cheese, so I used cheddar instead, but I did buy muenster cheese for the first time. Nadia loved the muenster cheese and is planning to use the rest of it to make grilled cheese sandwiches, which is typically what she has for lunch most days. She said she liked it as much as swiss cheese, which has been her most favorite cheese for months.
4. Paul and the boys are really enjoying the Mandalorian show on Disney+. It's the first time in my kids lives that they are waiting for one new episode of a show to come out each week. Last Friday the first episode of the second season was released. The second episode will be released tomorrow. There will be eight new episodes over the coming weeks. The boys often have a count down of how many days until they see baby Yoda!
5. Ian, Oliver, and Maddox had fun roller skating last night, and my three kids had fun playing arcade games, jumping on the trampolines, and playing laser tag today!
6. I haven't been watching the games at all, but the Steelers are the only undefeated team in the NFL at the moment. A 7-0 start is quite impressive, especially since the last two weeks we played teams that were either undefeated or had only lost one game prior to playing the Steelers. My Dad is hoping this season will end with their seventh Super Bowl victory!
Tuesday, November 3, 2020
Thankful Tuesday
I haven't written n a gratitude list since October 22, and for the last few years I've tried to write at least a short gratitude list in every post in November. Here's my first list for November 2020.
1. We had fun on October 23rd at the Christmas tree farm - a hayride, corn maze, and other games with some other families from our homeschool group.2. The show Nadia was in was recorded on Zoom on October 23. I watched it online on October 25. She didn't have very many lines in the play, but I'm grateful she had some additional coaching and experience with being in a play.
3. We returned to the service project on October 24 and helped with sealing meal bags and bundling seed packets. We also enjoyed the lunch they served after our session was done.
4. The kids were thankful that the Methodist Church near our home still held their annual Trunk or Treat on October 25 albeit it was definitely different due to COVID-19. Our church held a drive-thru Trunk or Treat on October 30. We didn't attend the one at our church, but because their attendance was lower than what they anticipated, they were passing out bags of candy to the kids and youth at church this past Sunday. We also took the kids trick or treating on Halloween so they got plenty of candy over the course of eight days. Ian sold a good deal of his candy to Nadia so she definitely has the largest stash of candy.
5. I enjoyed teaching a preschool class on October 25. Normally they have me in an elementary class (grades 1/2 or 2-5), but that Sunday I taught the class that currently has from ages 2 through Kindergarten. Due to the decreased attendance in person due to COVID, they have combined what used to be four different classes into one class.
6. I got my haircut last week. She cut it shorter than I wanted her to, but the upside is that I should be able to last longer before I get it cut again. Nadia was happy that I got it cut because she earned some money babysitting Oliver.
7. Nadia enjoyed participating in a "Cartooning on Broadway" art class via Zoom that the Berks Youth Chorus offered online twice last week.
8. Nadia enjoyed attending a cast party on the 30th. They played Mafia and Guesstures. The party was 30 minutes from our house. The boys and I dropped her off at 6:00pm, and I was thankful Paul agreed to pick her up at 9:30pm.
9. I'm thankful for the freedom we have in our country to vote for those who will represent us in the government. I had to wait in line for 90 minutes to vote today, and I showed up at 1:30, which I thought might be a "down" time. Typically we have almost no wait to vote. I am happy that the voter turnout seems to be higher than usual. I am hoping and praying that the outcome won't involve the Supreme Court like it did with the "hanging chads" years ago. I'm also hoping and praying that no matter who wins, people will not view this as an excuse to engage in illegal behavior that harms individuals and businesses. We've had ENOUGH of that behavior already this year. At times like these, I am very grateful we live in a rural area where businesses don't feel they need to board up their windows just because some people might decide to riot the election results.
10. Our freezer was delivered today! We got one that was bigger than I was planning to get because the size I wanted wasn't available due to COVID. The one we got is a kind that is made to be in a garage, but since we have two vehicles, three bicycles, garbage can, recycling bin, and lawn mower in our garage, I really don't think there's room for a freezer in there! The guys who delivered the freezer took it to the basement for us. I think this will be a blessing for us in the years to come.
11. I'm thankful that I've been taking the time to find new recipes and try many new foods, and thankfully some of the new foods have been well received. I have definitely been buying some ingredients I've never purchased before (ex. farmer's cheese) as well as buying some things I need for to make these foods (ex. a soufflé dish). It's easy to get in a rut with cooking, but I definitely haven't been in a rut for the past two months, and I have more than 70 new recipes on our list that we haven't tried yet.
12. The kids are enjoying the art classes through our membership with Creating a Masterpiece. Since art is not my forte, I'm grateful for this resource!
13. Our Echo dot notified me when some items in Oliver's wish list were on sale for 30-40% for only one day. I bought some of the Paw Patrol toys for Oliver and also for a nephew. I appreciated the notification!
14. I absolutely love listening to Ian play the piano. I wish my mom could hear him. I'm thankful she taught me how to play and now I have the privilege of teaching Ian how to play.
15. We've really enjoyed listening to two books by Katie Davis (Majors) and her work in Uganda. We will finish Daring to Hope tomorrow. Lately we've gotten in the habit of having one biography that we only listen to when Paul is here (which usually translates to Saturday evening plus all day Sunday). The last two weekends we've been listening to one about Ernest Shackleton. I can say with assurance that exploring Antarctica would be just about the last job I'd ever sign up for! Knowing my aversion to being cold, Paul has often teased that our next vacation will be to the Ross Ice Shelf. No, thank you!!!!
Monday, November 2, 2020
Big Day
In April Margie and my Dad said that they would give us a chest freezer for my birthday. It was impossible to buy one in April due to the fact people had purchased them like crazy all over the USA in February and March due to COVID-19. In July I placed an order with Lowe's. Most stores were still not accepting any orders, but Lowe's had a few that could be ordered online. Originally, they said it would be delivered in October, but not long after I placed the order they moved the delivery date to November 3. They called today to confirm that they are actually planning to deliver the freezer tomorrow morning! This means we'll be able to keep our meat in our own basement instead of at Millie's bakery, which is 80 minutes from our house. I'm looking forward to having a place to store food when I find a good sale and want to stock up on something that is perishable.
I don't win any prizes for being an artsy/craftsy mom, but the boys did have fun with some model magic yesterday morning before we went to church. We discussed All Saint's Day and Day of the Dead this weekend as we're learning about holidays around the world this year. In honor of Mexico's Day of the Dead, we had pan de Muertos (bread) last week, made sugar skulls yesterday afternoon, and ate churros today. We talked about Grandma and Uncle Maurice when making the skulls as that is the point of the holiday - to remember relatives who have passed away. This summer I ordered a deep fryer. I had never owned or used one before, but I saw some of the international recipes I was planning to try included frying. I contemplated buying an air fryer (certainly would be healthier) but ended up buying a deep fryer after reading many reviews. I used it for the first time today when making the churros. Between making the churros, Norwegian waffles, sausage, scrambled eggs, and also some rigatoni noodles as Paul doesn't eat waffles, I spent a little more than two hours cooking dinner plus cleaning up the dishes. Whew. Normally when I make waffles, I just use a buttermilk pancake mix. I have made waffles from scratch before when making something special such as pumpkin waffles. Nadia takes after Paul and isn't a fan of pancakes. French toast, or waffles. She will eat them (whereas he totally avoids them), but she prefers to eat leftovers if possible. The boys and I agreed that the Norwegian waffles were tastier than our usual ones; I think I'll make these again but not necessarily every time I make waffles. I definitely will not make churros very often, but Nadia said she might ask me to make them for her birthday. Yesterday I made chicken gyros, a Kenyan banana dish, and a Vietnamese sweet potato recipe. I'm taking it easy tomorrow in terms of food preparation and picking up pizza from a restaurant in our town! The kids really liked the pita bread, but they weren't fans of the dressing that was used in the gyro. I don't think I'll ever make gyros again, but at least they all know what a gyro tastes like now. It was also Paul's first time eating a gyro. There were peanuts on the sweet potatoes and bananas. Nadia and Oliver picked all the peanuts off. Paul didn't try the bananas or sweet potatoes. Ian and Nadia ate a tiny bit of sweet potatoes only because I required them to do so. Oliver and I LOVE sweet potatoes. Paul and Ian love peanuts, but if the others are going to pick them all off I think I'll add peanuts to the list of ingredients I will try to avoid when cooking. Speaking of Kenya, one of the five kids we sponsor lives in Kenya. We just received new pictures of Morgan (see above). He's the youngest child that we are currently sponsoring. Isn't he adorable? We've been praying fervently that the kids we sponsor and their families will not contract COVID-19.
Our getting a freezer tomorrow might be a big deal to us, but it is trivial compared to the election tomorrow. Every year I always look forward to when the election will be behind us. I never like seeing all the political signs up all over the place, even if those signs are for the candidate I am going to vote for. It also means an end to all the junk mail related to the election, and this year it means an end to the incessant text messages I've gotten regarding voting. I never like being in suspense. Sometimes I would get annoyed with how I let myself get too emotionally involved in a football game, for example. The first year I was old enough to vote, it was an off year election. I was twenty years old when I voted in a Presidential election for the first time in 1992. I can't recall whom I voted for in 2000. If I voted for Bush, that is the only time the Presidential candidate I voted for in a general election won. I didn't vote for Bush in 2004. I voted for a third party candidate, which is also what I did in 2016. Although I didn't vote for Trump four years ago, I am voting for him tomorrow. Do I think he's the ideal candidate? Absolutely not. None of us are perfect, but some of our character flaws are more noticeable than others. I wince at times over the things Trump says or tweets. I had very, very low expectations for him after I found out he won the election four years ago. I have been pleasantly surprised by the majority of his actions, and actions are more important than words (albeit it would be heavenly if he could better control his tongue). I have opinions on a wide range of political issues - the environment, taxes, gun control, the size of the deficit, etc., but I think if I had to boil it down to the TWO most important issues to me, they would be #1 is the candidate pro-life and #2 are they going to try to grow the size of the government? My ideal candidate would work to SHRINK the size of the government, but I doubt that will ever happen. I want government to preserve our liberties - freedom of speech, press, religion, right to bear arms, etc., and otherwise I'd like them to create as few regulations as possible. For example, in one place in the US they recently enacted a regulation that grocery stores must display fruits/vegetables in the checkout lines (not candy). Seriously?!? I can't see our founding fathers thinking that is the role of government.
Because I have always voted pro-life, that means if I am voting for someone from one of the two major parties, I'm going to end up voting Republican almost all the time. There was one time when I did vote for a Democrat because he was pro-life and the Republican running against him was pro-choice. Four years ago I was certain that Pence was pro-life, but I wasn't sure if Trump was actually pro-life. Now I am convinced that he is pro-life. His most recent Supreme Court nomination greatly impressed me. If I asked my kids who is one of the worst people ever, I am quite certain they would say Hitler. Hitler was obviously a very evil man - responsible for the death of at least 6 million Jews. However, our "Ally" - Stalin, was responsible for the deaths of between 20-60 million, and the Cultural Revolution in China (Mao) was responsible for the deaths of 20-30 million. Hitler doesn't seem like he'd win the prize for "the worst" if those numbers are accurate. But what about the USA? I think most people view slavery as our worst crime. Slavery was and is very, very awful. 10-12 million slaves were brought to our country. I wish that wasn't a part of our history. I wish that women didn't have to wait so long to be given the right to vote. I wish that blacks weren't treated so terribly (especially in the south) for almost 100 years after the Civil War ended. The list could go on. People aren't perfect, and if you study the history of any country or civilization, you are going to read about atrocities. As awful as slavery was/is, murdering babies is even worse to me. In less than 50 years more than 62 million babies have been killed in our country, which even tops the high estimate for Stalin. People recognize that what is inside an eagle's egg is a baby eagle because there are serious penalties for interfering with an eagle's egg, but some say that if a baby is inside a woman's body, that baby has zero rights. In fact some (ex. the Governor of Virginia) say if the abortion is botched and the baby is born alive, they still don't consider it infanticide to just let the baby starve to death. So we shall see if I actually vote for a Presidential candidate who wins an election for possibly the first time in my life. The bottom line is that God is in control no matter who lives in the White House or which party has the majority in the Senate. Hopefully our country doesn't become a socialistic country. A look at the history of various countries over the past 80 years shows what a train wreck socialism is - Venezuela being one of the most recent casualties. It's easy to feel anxiety over the election and the direction our country might be heading, but I keep reminding myself that God is our sovereign El Elyon.











































